kennethx33 Posted March 19, 2015 Posted March 19, 2015 I broke up with my girlfriend. She says she still loves me and has been wishy washy about being with me again. Sometimes she would be all in and say yes and other times she would say she needs time fix herself (she has huge family issues). However there is another guy. She admits that she doesnt like him in that way but he does treat her nice. Theyre always hugging and skyping afterschool The thing is, should I wait for this girl to come back? I mean she might invest more time for this guy and i dont want to be left as a side guy. Should I be upset that shes talking to him afterschool more than me? Should i be friends and try to build our relationship back together? Please help me.
Redhead14 Posted March 19, 2015 Posted March 19, 2015 I broke up with my girlfriend. She says she still loves me and has been wishy washy about being with me again. Sometimes she would be all in and say yes and other times she would say she needs time fix herself (she has huge family issues). However there is another guy. She admits that she doesnt like him in that way but he does treat her nice. Theyre always hugging and skyping afterschool The thing is, should I wait for this girl to come back? I mean she might invest more time for this guy and i dont want to be left as a side guy. Should I be upset that shes talking to him afterschool more than me? Should i be friends and try to build our relationship back together? Please help me. Your feelings are your feelings. No one can tell you how to feel. We understand how and what you are feeling and can only tell you that you should step back from the situation, don't dwell on it. It doesn't matter what she's doing. If she wants to come back you, she will and she will drop or stop talking to the other guy if she's serious about you. Don't wait for her. Prepare yourself to move on and date other girls. You are young, you shouldn't be pining away for a girl, you should be having fun with your friends, playing video games, sports, etc. If she comes back to you and demonstrates sincerity, you can decide to "get back" with her if you want, but think about what you've been through with her and whether or not that will change. Will you really want her back at that point? Go out and have fun in the meantime.
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