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Guys, would you think flirty girls are not for long term relationships?


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If you meet a girl and she is attractive, playful and has a flirty banter, gives you compliments or even touches you a bit here and there, would you assume she is just FWB material even though she doesn't dress revealing and talk slutty?

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If you meet a girl and she is attractive, playful and has a flirty banter, gives you compliments or even touches you a bit here and there, would you assume she is just FWB material even though she doesn't dress revealing and talk slutty?

 

I don't do FWBs, but I would be wary of getting involved with someone like that because I would assume she is doing it with other guys.

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If you meet a girl and she is attractive, playful and has a flirty banter, gives you compliments or even touches you a bit here and there, would you assume she is just FWB material even though she doesn't dress revealing and talk slutty?

 

I guess she likes YOU and is showing you that she is interested.

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I guess she likes YOU and is showing you that she is interested.

lol no im not a guy...

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Flirting is good, and by itself it wouldn't make me have second thoughts. I would want to find out if she is also loyal and able to commit. That's the real issue IF I'm looking for a relationship.

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No, I know plenty of flirty women that are not the FWB type, nor are they cheaters. They just flirt.

 

 

Besides I think too many guys mis-intrepet a woman just being friendly, as flirting. Some people are just generally touchy, women moreso than men, and it doesn't really mean there is any interest.

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If you meet a girl and she is attractive, playful and has a flirty banter, gives you compliments or even touches you a bit here and there, would you assume she is just FWB material even though she doesn't dress revealing and talk slutty?

 

My friend, being flirty, playful and touching you here and there (as long as it's not your rear end or crotch), is the way women and men demonstrate interest in each other very early on.

 

As long as she's not dressing or acting slutty, why would you assume she's FWB material? This question doesn't make sense to me.

 

You just met her, don't make any assumptions, especially if she's not doing anything "slutty". You don't know her yet. If you like her enough, spend a little more time to get to know her. Then you'll know what kind of "material" she is.

 

And, by the way, if you think being in an FWB relationship with a woman requires or means that she's slutty, that's not gonna work for you either. Even in an FWB relationship, you don't want a slutty woman. Nor should you hold the opinion that a woman who enters an FWB relationship is a slut (unless, of course, she is).

 

I do not advocate FWB's, but I also don't judge people who are in them.

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I am a woman & I am very flirty. Nobody who knows anything about me ever concluded I was easy.

 

Some men will assume a flirty woman is up for anything. Others will base their decision on the whole person.

 

Flirty & slutty are not synonyms.

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I'd actually assume she would be interested in me at some level, enough to ask her out for a date. I wouldn't even think of her as a FWB person.

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