Author ultimaterob97 Posted March 19, 2015 Author Posted March 19, 2015 yeah youre right you know, im gonna start the gym and just start being more confident with myself, i realized that if im so sad about loosing her then im just gonna waste time on her and she doesnt even like me. after all i got her in the first place so why cant i get someone the same/better 1
geronimo Posted March 19, 2015 Posted March 19, 2015 Thats the perfect attitude to have buddy, keep that up you can and you will get someone better who will respect you and wont be willing to give you up so easily. Goodluck! 1
Author ultimaterob97 Posted March 19, 2015 Author Posted March 19, 2015 thanks im usually fine at night, its just the mornings, i wake up almost as if it was a bad dream and its weird xD 1
Author ultimaterob97 Posted March 20, 2015 Author Posted March 20, 2015 Update: Dunno if anyone is gonna reply to this but I've been thinking things through about my ex. I think I know what went wrong...I think after I left for college and our group of high school friends fell apart I think I lost that personality I used to have when she first started talking to me,I become a bit depressed and clingy and started clinging on to her more... I dunno how I could ever prevent that from happening because I was just getting used to new people at college and stuff. I came to realize realize this because she has started talking to some of the boys who are still in that group of friends... I think she loved the happy and funny me but I really clinging on because it might have changed her and if I had have been happier she would still be with me now, guess she has interest in my old mates now... Bit awkward, its gonna hurt but oh well I guess :/ any opinions? (Sorry for going on)
AIJ Posted March 20, 2015 Posted March 20, 2015 Update: Dunno if anyone is gonna reply to this but I've been thinking things through about my ex. I think I know what went wrong...I think after I left for college and our group of high school friends fell apart I think I lost that personality I used to have when she first started talking to me,I become a bit depressed and clingy and started clinging on to her more... I dunno how I could ever prevent that from happening because I was just getting used to new people at college and stuff. I came to realize realize this because she has started talking to some of the boys who are still in that group of friends... I think she loved the happy and funny me but I really clinging on because it might have changed her and if I had have been happier she would still be with me now, guess she has interest in my old mates now... Bit awkward, its gonna hurt but oh well I guess :/ any opinions? (Sorry for going on) This is essentially what happened to me too, I became very dependent and sort of lost myself in the relationship. Saying that though, she changed too. She was hanging around with a new group of friends, before this she was the sweetest girl I'd ever spoken to, this new group were so judgemental and rude, rubbed off on her and she became exactly the same. Now she attracts douchebags just like her friends Good for her, I'm sure she'll be much happier when her new boyfriend cheats on her with one of her 'friends'.
Author ultimaterob97 Posted March 20, 2015 Author Posted March 20, 2015 yeah when i met her as well she was really cute and sweet, she still is with her family and this boy that she talks to... but with everyone else she is really bitchy and says things behind their backs. why does this happen to the boys that care so much, girls get attracted to the ones that dont care and just want sex :/
Author ultimaterob97 Posted March 20, 2015 Author Posted March 20, 2015 another thing is... why does she hate me so much? she loved me for a year and now literally hates my name, let alone actually see me, will she cool off?
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