MrDrama Posted March 18, 2015 Posted March 18, 2015 Hey guys!, I always come back to this place it seriously amazing how honest and genuine the advice is here. A little back story on my the last girl I dated was 2 years ago we were together for 4 years and we worked with each other. I was cheated on and she left me for another guy. All worked out for the better for me, I really learned who I am and I could not be happier. Anyways back to my story. I have been working with this girl for the last 8 months or so, she is in a position where she will be not be at the company for years to come. (The only reason I am pursuing this because I have been down this road before). I have been chasing her for the last 5 months or so, I stopped in the middle because I thought it wasn't going to go anywhere and she came ended up pursuing me a little more. Over the last month or so things were going great we were going out 2-3 times a week and oddly enough we talked about our first kiss together which still has not happened, and it was going to happened the next time I see her. Guess what I BROKE MY HIP. (I am out of work for 2-3 months and only mobile with crutches for short periods). This was 2 weeks ago I have not seen here in this two weeks even asking her to come visit me ( I am disappointed she has not come to visit me). If you cared about someone enough I feel like thats the first thing you would do. Texting and talking on the phone is getting stale for me to be honest, I want to see her so badly I honestly think I fell in love with her. Now it seems like I was just a work boyfriend. ( I do live with my parents still and so does she we are both mid twenties) Any thoughts? Should I stop talking to her and see if she comes around? Should I ask again for her to come down? I just don't want to lose her because I am not able to see her anymore. Summary: I am dating this girl at work and I broke my hip. She has not come to visit me, I am disappointed because things were going to great before this happened. Makes me think I am just a work boyfriend to be honest.
Radu Posted March 18, 2015 Posted March 18, 2015 Women have as much of a protective instinct as men do. If a woman loves you and you are sick ... she will show interest in helping you ... in being nurturing. Either the relation had not developed deep enough yet ... or she has some bad memories of guys living with their parents ... or like you said ... you were her work flirt. Which would go pretty well hand in hand with the fact that you were kinda together for 2 months ... and not kissed her. I think she pursued you because you stopped pursuing her. At this point all you can do is stop chasing after her ... but do not try to play the victim.
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