Ninjainpajamas Posted March 19, 2015 Posted March 19, 2015 I understand you're been honest. I'll work twice as hard to show her I trust her, I made a mistake and nothing like this will ever happen again. You're such a push-over, I have no idea how you're able to lower yourself to beggar level, this girl is going to have no respect for you...she has you by the balls and the only thing she's doing is giving you a tug just to keep you on your toes and flex the power she has over you to build her own ego and assert her power over you...she is enjoying making you wiggle, it's not because of her deep broken trust and hurt because you were probably and most likely on to so something. People are only reading this situation based on how you acted and feel her reaction is justified in her behavior for it...but you're being a fool like the others and not noticing the subtle clues..but go ahead and learn the hard way, this girl's playing you like a puppet, she knows exactly what she's doing while you're acting like you've got to do these great gestures of love for forgiveness....after 2.5 months of dating!!! Can't wait to see/hear how this ends, it'll end with you looking like a chump. 3
fitnessfan365 Posted March 19, 2015 Posted March 19, 2015 You're such a push-over, I have no idea how you're able to lower yourself to beggar level, this girl is going to have no respect for you...she has you by the balls and the only thing she's doing is giving you a tug just to keep you on your toes and flex the power she has over you to build her own ego and assert her power over you...she is enjoying making you wiggle, it's not because of her deep broken trust and hurt because you were probably and most likely on to so something. People are only reading this situation based on how you acted and feel her reaction is justified in her behavior for it...but you're being a fool like the others and not noticing the subtle clues..but go ahead and learn the hard way, this girl's playing you like a puppet, she knows exactly what she's doing while you're acting like you've got to do these great gestures of love for forgiveness....after 2.5 months of dating!!! Can't wait to see/hear how this ends, it'll end with you looking like a chump. Haha.. This was awesome. It's funny NP. I think you and me were the only two to pick up on some things being rotten in the state of Denmark.
Author Rexxy Posted March 20, 2015 Author Posted March 20, 2015 She contacting me more frequently today. We're even back to snapchatting each other, she messaged me first today and said "How beautiful the flowers are and how much she loves them" And asking if I picked them and so on. At least she's communicating more today. I'm staying positive. 1
ascendotum Posted March 20, 2015 Posted March 20, 2015 Haha.. This was awesome. It's funny NP. I think you and me were the only two to pick up on some things being rotten in the state of Denmark. I don't know if there is enough here to assume somethings rotten, but it could be. Someone else said they read past posts of his gf checking out hot guys when they have been out together, so naturally if the OP picks that up he's going to be anxious over her going on a girls night out and getting plastered. I think calling what he did creepy is over the top, but it was insecure & sneaky. I wouldn't necessarily call it childish as in the warranted circumstances with a gf you have suspicions about it, it could be a worthwhile stunt to trip the girl up on her shady behavior. In this case though it wasn't warranted, and he shouldn't have done it. Funny she wanted to check his phone for the number though. I think her reaction is over the top too, but I get she's annoyed and I do get get that some women on past experience seeing this sort of stunt early on in a relationship would be wary of continuing the relationship, but this guy hardly comes off as the dominating controlling jealous type. Its totally about insecurity. I agree with NIPs post on this girl now having the upper hand here and its not over her deep broken trust.
Author Rexxy Posted March 20, 2015 Author Posted March 20, 2015 I sent her a text asking how she was feeling today. She replied with "Tired. I miss you"
Author Rexxy Posted March 20, 2015 Author Posted March 20, 2015 (edited) She decided to call me again, We had a really fun conversation like nothing had changed at all, joking around and laughing. She pretty much seemed back to normal and mentioned hanging out tonight but I couldn't because I have work. Now on sunday she doesn't mind what we do. Literally felt as if nothing had changed in the conversation on the phone. Talked for about 15 mins leaving it at a high note, not one mention of the fight. Edited March 20, 2015 by Rexxy 1
Author Rexxy Posted March 20, 2015 Author Posted March 20, 2015 We went out for dinner last night and sorted things out, she said she was willing to forgive me and work on things together. I ended up going back to her place, had sex, and stayed the night. The next morning when we were in the car together she said that she can't believe how I was able to get off the hook like that and made it clear that she wants to work things out and continue on. Things are still a little tense and awkward obviously but in time we'll gradually be where we were. People make mistakes in life but it's possible to forgive and move on instead of taking the easy route of giving up. Sometimes people just need a chance (wake up call), don't give up on things so easily. Thanks for the advice everyone, I've learnt my lesson of stupidity and immaturity. It's time to start been a man, not a boy. 1
Maxtor Posted March 21, 2015 Posted March 21, 2015 MY advice, based ONLY in my experience is: dont start being a do it all guy. Like she needs to sneeze and you say God bless you before she even sneezes.
Author Rexxy Posted March 23, 2015 Author Posted March 23, 2015 MY advice, based ONLY in my experience is: dont start being a do it all guy. Like she needs to sneeze and you say God bless you before she even sneezes. I'm aware of that and I completely agree. I'm been nice but not that nice still.
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