elliecoffee Posted March 18, 2015 Posted March 18, 2015 I posted a few days back something about this guy I was crushing on because he was really caring and gentle to me. So my initial concern was does he like me? should I make a move? am I imagining things? whatever, but now... I had some doubts about how he behave with others girls, maybe that was his deal you know? and today we had another training session. The other girl he's training was there and at the beginning he hugged and looked at me. I kept stretching and they kept talking until I approached them and they were discussing whatever and he gave her a little slap on her cheek as a matter of scolding. I only said 'wow' and looked at the girl to see her reaction but she kept smiling and laughing and hahahaha everything's so cool ? Training session was normal, he was still attentive to me, caring, soft and respectful. (Although he changed his shirt in front of me having the locker room just next door) When it ended he told me he wanted to check another drill but that would have to be next week since I needed to rest from this session. He kept telling I could drop by anytime if I needed help with my training and he would gladly help me. There I asked him again about prices and he had this look of not annoyance but disappointment like do you really want to go there?. Still, he gave me no direct answer and told me to wait until next week. Oh btw, he charges 300 dollars per month per person. What gets me is the way he treated her. They seem to get along that way, all that private training group, really harsh but still, I don't see WHY you should touch anybody's face. It wasn't like a hard slap but it wasn't soft either. I mean, let's not get too far, if we get more confortable with each other am I getting slapped or treated harshly because you know, we're friends now? What will happen when we date? NAY. I think I'm going to pass on this one and keep training alone. What do you think? you guys agree? xx
Toodaloo Posted March 18, 2015 Posted March 18, 2015 There is a saying... Don't poo where you eat... He is offering a service. He is clearly a friendly, happy person but hate to say it you are a client. Its bad to mix business with pleasure so no. I don't think he is going to go there. He clearly has a good relationship with this other woman and she was clearly comfortable with what he did. I doubt he is going to go there either. Train but don't keep crushing this one. He is not for you. 1
wb1988 Posted March 18, 2015 Posted March 18, 2015 Don't poo where you eat... I know your english isn't great but what you said was really offensive. The saying is "don't sh*t where you eat". 1
Toodaloo Posted March 18, 2015 Posted March 18, 2015 I know your english isn't great but what you said was really offensive. The saying is "don't sh*t where you eat". I was trying to use an alternative to the s word... I am also trying to cut back on my usage of the F word, several B words and a couple of A words... its just not lady like! Ellie its not a let down, its a chap that doesn't want to mix business with pleasure. Imagine if you started dating and some of his other clients got jealous about it. It could cause no end of grief! 2
Haydn Posted March 18, 2015 Posted March 18, 2015 I was trying to use an alternative to the s word... I am also trying to cut back on my usage of the F word, several B words and a couple of A words... its just not lady like! Ellie its not a let down, its a chap that doesn't want to mix business with pleasure. Imagine if you started dating and some of his other clients got jealous about it. It could cause no end of grief! `Don`t dump on your own doorstep` Your English is great, possibly with a strong `Hampshire` accent. OP, business and pleasure usually don`t mix or if they do it turns into a long list of imaginative alibi`s. (I was playing snooker, honest) He seems just to want to concentrate on training you. Maybe let this one go? 1
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