Guest Posted April 11, 2005 Posted April 11, 2005 Alright, I am unexpierenced at the whole dating thing, so anyway There is a girl that i am attracted to and I work with her, Today I asked her to our Senior Prom, and she said yes.....well Its still awhile till the prom but i want to get to know her and maybe go an a date or two before hand, well, I guess what i am asking is, when is the right time to ask her out? I am in no rush to do it, what should i talk to her about to get her to like me better....... i just want to be ready. Also what all should we do for prom, since we arent dating, or anything, should i try to cap the night off with a kiss? or no? I hope you can understand what im asking but, thanks in advance.
bubblygrl5 Posted April 12, 2005 Posted April 12, 2005 I'm assuming you are in high school? Ask her to a movie, or to get some coffee with you maybe? Something casual - where you get a chance to talk so you wont feel like you dont even know her on the actual day of the prom. Or, exchange numbers - talk on the phone a bit, do some studying together. Keep it light. B
Screenplay Posted April 12, 2005 Posted April 12, 2005 Ah, I remember those days Well, firstly you want to stop thinking of whatever you choose between now and prom as a date. Invite her to go to coffee, out to eat in a small group of friends, something casual in nature. Your big night together will be the prom itself, don't overshadow it beforehand. Give her just enough to pique her interest. As for the kiss, thats totally up to you to read, it's all about body language and timing. Just get a feel for the chemistry and make a move if it feels right.
Auz Posted April 12, 2005 Posted April 12, 2005 Dont start building too many expectations of how the night will go, because your imagination will start running wild and you will be setting yourself up for disappointment. If you expect that you will kiss her, and the opportunity wont arise, then you'll end up hating the night. If you go and get a kiss when you werent really expecting one, then you'll be walking on air the whole night:P...but i always reckon its best to become friends first..get to know the real her, and let her know the real you..the more comfortable she is around you..the more chance you have of getting that kiss Heres a hint: you can't MAKE her like you..if you be yourself and she likes you then its all systems go. If you try be someone she will like, then sooner or later shes going to find the real you and things will go downhill pretty fast. The fact you work together and she said yes means that so far, from what she knows of you, you seem ok - which is a good start for you. All I can say is, be yourself - who knows..some girls find it cute when the guy is nervous:) But yeah maybe go for a bite to eat with her after work or something. Ask questions about her, or about stuff shes interested in - most girls love to talk:) Auz
Guest Posted April 15, 2005 Posted April 15, 2005 Alright, thanks for the advice, anyway me and her are getting along great so far we talk everyday and not just about prom, I just have to build up the nerve to ask her out, but the problem is that i work 5-11 on friday and 2-11 saterdays, so basically my weekend is gone to work. And no im not building up my expectations too high, I want the night to be perfect, well at least close to it. So if i dont feel shes ready or the time is not right then i wont go for it. Thanks again for the advice
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