Amy77 Posted March 17, 2015 Posted March 17, 2015 2 months of NC and I was finally getting happy again, he wasn't consuming every thought of mine and I realised I was better off without him , until my drunk mind decided to text him and now everything is so complicated as he has a girlfriend now and we met up last night and had sex, everything's just ruined now all my progress all the hurt I had to endure & I find myself back begging for his attention. Crying now over this mess all over a stupid text, please please do not break NC , no good will come from it, don't redo your recovery process as I done last night. Good luck people maybe one day we will wake up 100% recovered x
BunHeadLA Posted March 18, 2015 Posted March 18, 2015 Hugs... I can't say I wouldn't do the same thing if my ex wanted sex again... He's dating the girl he left me for and I'd have no qualms getting together with him, I don't care about her. We are here for you!
Heatemyheart89 Posted March 19, 2015 Posted March 19, 2015 Hey It happens , try not to beat yourself up . I'd go back to NC.
bigtrouble Posted March 20, 2015 Posted March 20, 2015 2 months of NC and I was finally getting happy again, he wasn't consuming every thought of mine and I realised I was better off without him , until my drunk mind decided to text him and now everything is so complicated as he has a girlfriend now and we met up last night and had sex, everything's just ruined now all my progress all the hurt I had to endure & I find myself back begging for his attention. Crying now over this mess all over a stupid text, please please do not break NC , no good will come from it, don't redo your recovery process as I done last night. Good luck people maybe one day we will wake up 100% recovered x I'm sorry you are going through this pain. But it does happen, better now than later, atleast you get to deal with it early on. The fact that you were on NC healed you, but not. Lest if you are totally healed you would be indifferent. This may bring back the pain, but use this as a push to move on. Don't think of it as a weakness, but a reason to live your life without him. Reality hurts its a wake up call. You needed that push. Now keep moving forward. Head Up, be strong.
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