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My bf and I got together in September. We spent the end of the summer confiding in each other. This is the point where he told me he had trust issues. I didn't really mind that because nobody's perfect. I'm starting to regret that.

 

He gets suspicious everytime I go somewhere. Went out this mornings & he went on a rant saying, "he doesn't understand why I have to leave" he'll ask me ?s like are you sure you're not going to see another man? :mad:

 

The other night he asked me if I would have a 4sum with his best friend and his gf. I said yes. An hr later he admitted he set the whole thing up; there was NEVER a 4way "he just wanted to see where my head was"

 

Getting fed up, I told him I was moving about 30 mins away to stay w my GMA. He told me if I did that we might as well break up because that's too long of a distance...tf?!?!!

 

I didn't want to break up just wanted to move so I started crying thinking about it. Then he started crying; he hugged me and said, "I don't wannabe w.o you. The weather's warming and temptation is gonna be everywhere" At said time I didnt say anything because I was in the moment but now that I look at it I should've been mad!

 

What difference does it make where temptation is if you have self-control?!?!

 

I'm sorry if this post is too long but I was ted to make sure I typed the whole story so I could get whole hearted advice

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People with trust issues can be a problem and a deal breaker. Was he cheated on in the past? He should go to counseling.

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"Trust issues" hell; this guy is edging into "psychotic issues".

 

You want to live like this? Me neither.

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Break up with him.

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Jealousy like this will destroy your RS. It will only get worse.

 

`You don`t answer my texts in 1 minute`

 

`Where are you?`

 

`I don`t believe you`

 

`How can you do this to me`

 

Trust me it gets worse. I was once unable to leave the house for fear that a 5 minute trip to the bookies could result in..... `You fancy the girl who works there`!

 

`Show me your betting slip`

 

I wish you luck OP.

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My bf and I got together in September. We spent the end of the summer confiding in each other. This is the point where he told me he had trust issues. I didn't really mind that because nobody's perfect. I'm starting to regret that.

 

He gets suspicious everytime I go somewhere. Went out this mornings & he went on a rant saying, "he doesn't understand why I have to leave" he'll ask me ?s like are you sure you're not going to see another man? :mad:

 

The other night he asked me if I would have a 4sum with his best friend and his gf. I said yes. An hr later he admitted he set the whole thing up; there was NEVER a 4way "he just wanted to see where my head was"

 

Getting fed up, I told him I was moving about 30 mins away to stay w my GMA. He told me if I did that we might as well break up because that's too long of a distance...tf?!?!!

 

I didn't want to break up just wanted to move so I started crying thinking about it. Then he started crying; he hugged me and said, "I don't wannabe w.o you. The weather's warming and temptation is gonna be everywhere" At said time I didnt say anything because I was in the moment but now that I look at it I should've been mad!

 

What difference does it make where temptation is if you have self-control?!?!

 

I'm sorry if this post is too long but I was ted to make sure I typed the whole story so I could get whole hearted advice

 

Bless your heart for still being into this guy after that crap... may be your downfall as franky he sounds like an insecure controlling asshat.....

 

I'd be running for the hills ....not sure why you're not.

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Living with irrational jealousy is hell.

 

If your boyfriend can't get an handle on it there's no future for you as a couple.

 

He needs some therapy.

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Your BF is stark raving mad. You should have ran out of there as fast as you could.

 

Don't let your love for him get in the way of making the best decision you can make....breaking up with him.

You can't fix him, your are not a therapist, it's not your problem to fix. He needs to seek out help himself, and in order for him to have therapy work is for him not to be in a relationship.

 

When I was a teenager I dated a guy just like that. I was young and stupid and tried to stick it out.....it turned into mental and physical abuse before I got out of it.

 

Get out now!

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Girl, you need to run and run fast.

 

This will never ease up. He will get worse and worse because he's putting a problem he needs to deal with himself onto you as if it's your responsibility to handle. It isn't.

 

Move and live with your grandmother. If it means you two break up, then so be it. You will be far better off without someone like this--he will age you before your time, wearing you down with his constant accusations. You see now how he esteems your character: he believes you to be barely above a wh0re, someone who will land on the business end of some man's dicque just because the weather is getting warmer? Do you not hear how crazy that sounds?

 

It doesn't matter that you're not that type of woman: he doesn't believe you. That means he esteems you as a liar. Nothing you say will ever get through to him. The only thing he's going to understand is being left.

 

That guy needs a therapist, not a girlfriend.

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Wow he sounds crazy. Break up with him.

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