Karin2rinkashi Posted March 17, 2015 Posted March 17, 2015 After 2 weeks of break up, she is in a relationship???? To a guy that she used to call me and bitch about alllll the ****ing time?? "Oh he was making fun of me when walked in one day. He was so mean. I hate him! I don't know why keeps bugging me? I hate this guy. He keeps talking about his money, and how he is so cool. So pathetic?" And then she is in a ****ING RELATIONSHIP with him????? WHAAAAAAAAAAT? What? What? What? And it took her 2 weeks to get over all of we have had? It has been long distance for 1 month out of 8 months was LDR. ONLY ONE ****ING MONTH? ONEEEE MONTH? **** her! **** her! **** her! Someone explain this **** to me? SOMEONE! ANYONE?
BlackbirdSong Posted March 17, 2015 Posted March 17, 2015 I'm sorry this happened to you. The exact same thing happened to me a few weeks ago. My ex used to complain about how much she hated her personal trainer, saying he was "arrogant" and that "he thinks all the girls love him and he's the center of the universe". Much to my dismay, this was a smokescreen. They're now in a relationship and she was probably banging him during our relationship.
LooperDooper Posted March 17, 2015 Posted March 17, 2015 After 2 weeks of break up, she is in a relationship???? To a guy that she used to call me and bitch about alllll the ****ing time?? "Oh he was making fun of me when walked in one day. He was so mean. I hate him! I don't know why keeps bugging me? I hate this guy. He keeps talking about his money, and how he is so cool. So pathetic?" And then she is in a ****ING RELATIONSHIP with him????? WHAAAAAAAAAAT? What? What? What? And it took her 2 weeks to get over all of we have had? It has been long distance for 1 month out of 8 months was LDR. ONLY ONE ****ING MONTH? ONEEEE MONTH? **** her! **** her! **** her! Someone explain this **** to me? SOMEONE! ANYONE? Bro, you need to let her go. If you were a good boyfriend and a good person to her, keep your head up very high, go NC (or continue it as if it is your life) and start doing yourself. Go out, get drunk with your friends, be sad, have fun, work out, excel at your job/school and just think about damn you. You need to realize that she isn't worth it. We've all been there, but karma is a bitch. If you were good to her, thank your life you are no longer with somebody who: 1) Doesn't deserve you 2) A liar 3) Potentially a cheater (at least emotionally) 4) An immature individual Instead of moping, say thank you. Now you are 100% sure this girl isn't for you and you no longer need to waste time with her. Be patient and find the girl of your dreams, if you she was good, the next one will be better. If she wasn't a good gf, then well find somebody who will value you and respect you until the end. Trust me, it gets better. The sadness fades into anger, the anger fades into hate, the hate fades into indifference. Eventually you will get over her and you can be happy on your own and in the future you will bring much more to a new relationship stronger (and much wiser). 3
Author Karin2rinkashi Posted March 17, 2015 Author Posted March 17, 2015 I was freakin awesome to her. The way i treated her, the way i made her feel. I did **** for her that NO ONE and i mean NO ONE will do. And i know she cheated. I don't have proof but i know she cheated. Karma is a bitch. I will have the last laugh. I am sure i dropped half my IQ level while i kissed her so many times. I thought she can make up for her dumbness with someone etiquette. But that was too much too ask... And i love hating... i consider myself a sith! **** HER! 1
Lorelai Posted March 17, 2015 Posted March 17, 2015 After 2 weeks of break up, she is in a relationship???? This is why it sucks to learn too much about your ex when you're still hurting. Unless, of course, you learn their new partner has posted about engaging in bestiality on webcam. (I posted about that story in another thread just now.)
AIJ Posted March 17, 2015 Posted March 17, 2015 Same thing happened to me buddy. 3 days after the break up.. 'I still love you'. Which I rightfully ignored. A week on.. with someone new. Great banter. Had a horrible gut feeling she was looking elsewhere, guess she just needed to make sure she had someone lined up before jumping ship.
sabd Posted March 17, 2015 Posted March 17, 2015 This is pretty common. Same thing happened to me - 2 weeks later and he'd already moved in with someone new. It was a real slap in the face but hey, people can be weird and nothing surprises me anymore.
Light Breeze Posted March 17, 2015 Posted March 17, 2015 After 2 weeks of break up, she is in a relationship???? To a guy that she used to call me and bitch about alllll the ****ing time?? "Oh he was making fun of me when walked in one day. He was so mean. I hate him! I don't know why keeps bugging me? I hate this guy. He keeps talking about his money, and how he is so cool. So pathetic?" And then she is in a ****ING RELATIONSHIP with him????? WHAAAAAAAAAAT? What? What? What? And it took her 2 weeks to get over all of we have had? It has been long distance for 1 month out of 8 months was LDR. ONLY ONE ****ING MONTH? ONEEEE MONTH? **** her! **** her! **** her! Someone explain this **** to me? SOMEONE! ANYONE? Dude, she cheated on you. Her bitching about him is called a "diversion".
Author Karin2rinkashi Posted March 17, 2015 Author Posted March 17, 2015 I am starting my skydiving AFF course next week. **** her! I am an Engineer, a smart individual, ambitious, driven, doing **** with my life. She can be with that chump...... If anything, it is a rebound. Too bad there wont be anything behind her when momentum sends her back. SLUT!
mightycpa Posted March 17, 2015 Posted March 17, 2015 This is why it sucks to learn too much about your ex when you're still hurting. Unless, of course, you learn their new partner has posted about engaging in bestiality on webcam. (I posted about that story in another thread just now.) I don't think there's any need to call your ex a "beast"... :lmao:
Lorelai Posted March 17, 2015 Posted March 17, 2015 I don't think there's any need to call your ex a "beast"... :lmao: Well, he *was* pretty hairy... (Ok ok, that was uncalled for. I actually don't have an issue with hairy men, and so many guys are terribly self-conscious about it. My most recent ex had a hair stylist who totally lost her tip when she commented negatively about it while she was shaving the back of his neck. Neither of them would go swimming without a shirt, either. Sad.)
EgoJoe Posted March 17, 2015 Posted March 17, 2015 You can not make anybody feel anything other than sensation. Don't let the little voice take a turn at the helm.
na49 Posted March 17, 2015 Posted March 17, 2015 Yep.. she blindsided you dude. It probably won't last, and she'll probably be back.
b_rouse Posted March 17, 2015 Posted March 17, 2015 After 2 weeks of break up, she is in a relationship???? To a guy that she used to call me and bitch about alllll the ****ing time?? "Oh he was making fun of me when walked in one day. He was so mean. I hate him! I don't know why keeps bugging me? I hate this guy. He keeps talking about his money, and how he is so cool. So pathetic?" And then she is in a ****ING RELATIONSHIP with him????? WHAAAAAAAAAAT? What? What? What? And it took her 2 weeks to get over all of we have had? It has been long distance for 1 month out of 8 months was LDR. ONLY ONE ****ING MONTH? ONEEEE MONTH? **** her! **** her! **** her! Someone explain this **** to me? SOMEONE! ANYONE? I was in your shoes 5 years ago. My ex was in a relationship with someone else 2 weeks after we broke up. Granted, my ex never hated this person, but I know the sudden "surprise" feeling. Usually rebounds don't last. My ex was in a relationship with this new girl for a few months and then they were done. I can't say that'll happen to you, but it happened to me. Believe me, it sucks. But take the high road! If I can give you any advice, do NOT contact her and talk to her about it. I made that mistake and called my ex. Don't do it!
pilsner86 Posted March 17, 2015 Posted March 17, 2015 (edited) My ex told me he was going to be with the girl he left me. And now says he's happy a month later. Words can't even express how I feel about it. As much as it feels like **** now, it's not worth the pain to think about it. It says a ton about them and they are now someone else's problem. Edited March 17, 2015 by pilsner86
Author Karin2rinkashi Posted March 17, 2015 Author Posted March 17, 2015 I was in your shoes 5 years ago. My ex was in a relationship with someone else 2 weeks after we broke up. Granted, my ex never hated this person, but I know the sudden "surprise" feeling. Usually rebounds don't last. My ex was in a relationship with this new girl for a few months and then they were done. I can't say that'll happen to you, but it happened to me. Believe me, it sucks. But take the high road! If I can give you any advice, do NOT contact her and talk to her about it. I made that mistake and called my ex. Don't do it! OH HELL NO! I am not gonna talk to her or be friends with her... She wanted to.. "I want to keep asking you, how you are doing every now and then... " My reply... "No! I am not going to be your pet sheep. I am sorry, i am outta here. Even though i love you, but this is it..." No friends... She took my fight as a wrong sign of weakness. I even told her once.... Please, do not mistake my care for you (meaning me trying to get you back) as my weakness. I know i can leave you any moment, but i am choosing to stay and fight.. But that Borderline Personality Disorder got to her.... She can **** herself. I am gonna be diving from 14000 feet days and then every week.... **** everything!
Author Karin2rinkashi Posted March 17, 2015 Author Posted March 17, 2015 My ex told me he was going to be with the girl he left me. And now says he's happy a month later. Words can't even express how I feel about it. As much as it feels like **** now, it's not worth the pain to think about it. It says a ton about them and they are now someone else's problem. Who cares? Think about all the ****ty part of them. Out do them! Out live them! Out smart them! Out everything them. **** these cheating ****ers!!! LIVE YOUR LIFE!!! Go watch a couple of motivational videos on YouTube, hit the gym, some Tinnie Tampah, Some Gym Class Heroes....
Author Karin2rinkashi Posted March 17, 2015 Author Posted March 17, 2015 Yep.. she blindsided you dude. It probably won't last, and she'll probably be back. She will be back for a surprise.... I am over her! **** her! I ain't nobody's second choose. When i saw her GRE scores, i thought to myself "What the **** am i doing with her?" I swear i dropped half my IQ because all the times i kissed her.. **** THAT BITCH!
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