nightbird101 Posted March 17, 2015 Posted March 17, 2015 So i got a boyfriend (dating for 2 months) and suddenly my male friends are really friendly (huggy ect). While others distance themselfs from me. Why is this and what should i do?
preraph Posted March 17, 2015 Posted March 17, 2015 Some are activated by the competition. Others are put off by it. Don't do anything. Some guys won't be interested in a woman until other guys are. It's a man thing. Competition. It's fleeting, not lasting. Once they hit it, they're done. 1
Redhead14 Posted March 17, 2015 Posted March 17, 2015 So i got a boyfriend (dating for 2 months) and suddenly my male friends are really friendly (huggy ect). While others distance themselfs from me. Why is this and what should i do? It doesn't matter. You don't do anything. By the way, if you are calling a man your boyfriend after only two months, you'd better make sure you two are on the same page. Does he want a girlfriend or consider you to be his girlfriend? If not, you are free to date one of the male friends who are showing interest and if they ask you. 1
PegNosePete Posted March 17, 2015 Posted March 17, 2015 You should probably get new friends, because these ones don't seem to be your friends for the right reasons.
d0nnivain Posted March 17, 2015 Posted March 17, 2015 The male friends are "marking their territory." Even though they didn't want to date you before, you have become more desirable now that you have a BF. Do not respond to these guys. Straight arm them so they stay in the friendzone where they belong. Carry on with your BF.
preraph Posted March 17, 2015 Posted March 17, 2015 The ones who are sulled up could be guys who don't have the nerve to let you know they actually are interested in you and are waiting for you to just jump on them. I wouldn't.
kendahke Posted March 17, 2015 Posted March 17, 2015 So i got a boyfriend (dating for 2 months) and suddenly my male friends are really friendly (huggy ect). While others distance themselfs from me. Why is this and what should i do? Your boyfriend isn't going to like the huggy ones trying to be territorial with you. The onus on this is on you--you need to check the touchy ones and tell them to stand off because they are not respecting your boyfriend. The one distancing themselves from you are respecting your boyfriend.
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