Any other women have extreme difficulty finding men they're attracted to?

[SearchingForMyself]

Really?

 

Fifty shades of Grey has sold 100 million copies and was one of the fastest opening films of all time.

 

The story? Woman falls for a strong, handsome, confident, rich and DOMINANT alpha who wants to control her.

 

And you're saying that this isn't a fantasy that women subscribe too lol? The facts and figures speak for themselves. 100 million women can't be wrong, can they?

 

What I find ironic.

 

In Twilight, Stephanie Meyer was an overweight single woman(sure shes single) who captured the teenage fantasy of millions of girls everywhere.

 

50 Shades was written by a sexually STARVED and rather homely(meaning not at all cute) British middle aged woman...and it started out as a TWILIGHT FANFIC.

 

Point? These sold because they catered to the fantasies of their demographic, and when it comes to women....the closer to her fantasy, the more shell bend reality to get it.

 

Millions of women will get in line just to share Christian Grey than to marry that average joe in accounting.

 

Or theyll marry that average joe and screw Christian behind his back, possibly having that average joe raise the kid because his good momma told him to look out for the children.

 

This is probably the most depressing thread I read on loveshack. Wow.

[Hopeful30]

Now everyone is off topic. Moderator, please close thread.

[markleymassraff]

Maybe the men here who find it depressing that women actually *gulp* like attractive men, could become more charismatic and confident. That's all it is. It's not really money or power; it's charisma, social skills, and confidence. By themselves, they are pretty powerful, but in combination with good looks and a decent body, it's very, very desirable. But the good thing is, not all women have the same taste when it comes to "good looks."

[xxoo]

You must have missed the last few pages. She is looking for someone to make her genitalia swell up = looks. eat escargo = class = money and is the perfect gentleman

 

Escargo is snails. You don't have to be high class to eat snails, just more adventurous than the average Burger King devotee.

 

And far more than looks make a woman's genitals swell, as the OP has been saying! She has the same type as me, so I get it.

[joet]

Maybe the men here who find it depressing that women actually *gulp* like attractive men, could become more charismatic and confident. That's all it is. It's not really money or power; it's charisma, social skills, and confidence. By themselves, they are pretty powerful, but in combination with good looks and a decent body, it's very, very desirable. But the good thing is, not all women have the same taste when it comes to "good looks."

 

No one is depressed that attarctive men get more looks or have better options. It's everything on top of the attraction that makes women seem very, very picky. Not only does the man have to be attractive, they have to be charismatic, impress the woman's group of friends, be financially set with a decent body.

[al78]

Maybe the men here who find it depressing that women actually *gulp* like attractive men, could become more charismatic and confident.

 

Not sure it is as easy as all that. It is like telling an introvert to become an extrovert, and vice versa.

 

But yes, you can't blame anyone for being attracted to whatever they are attracted too. Attraction is not a choice after all.

[preraph]

Men are 85% driven by looks. Personality and compatibility are the icing on the cake. Higher testosterone and a different hormone profile explains this. Women are hypergamous- they want the best looks, status, power, charisma (aka game) that their looks will afford them. If at any point they think they can trade up, they will.

 

The numerous comments by women on here confirm everything I have read in the Red Pill. Sharing the alpha, the feeling of entitlement, hypergamy etc has been extensively explained over at redpill forum, rational male etc... The sad part is? The deep down beta romantic in me wanted it to be all lies, that women can be 'special snowflakes' who can resist their hypergamous urges. Then I come on here and read some of these replies.... God it's depressing. But so accurately depicted by the Red Pill.

 

If it's any consolation, most of the women I know well who did marry married men who aren't as good looking as they are and aren't rich either. And at least half of them had very bad personalities to boot. So don't go blowing your brains out.

[xxoo]

Not sure it is as easy as all that. It is like telling an introvert to become an extrovert, and vice versa.

 

Strength is a highly attractive quality in both genders, in introverts and extroverts alike. Everyone should strive to grow stronger in character and both physical and emotional health. Confidence is the result.

[William]

Now everyone is off topic. Moderator, please close thread.

 

Thread closed at request of OP ~Thanks