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It's always kinda of hard to fully understand what someone else is thinking.

So I wanted to see what other people think.

Over the weekend I met a women at a show. I took the initiative to talk to her and we chatted up during set breaks and what not. Ended up having a lot in common. Anyways at the end of the night she asked for my phone # which doesn't seem to be the norm in the given situation . She quickly sent me a text so I had hers. As the rest of the night played out I never brought up what her intentions were about meeting up for a date. Just kinda assumed

 

I was just wondering what you think her intentions were. Are they the same as mine would be?

So ladies what are you intentions when you ask for guy's phone #.

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She's interested. Assuming you like her too, reach out & set up a date. Please call don't text.

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What donnie said, call and ask her out. What's the worst that could happen?

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It's always kinda of hard to fully understand what someone else is thinking.

So I wanted to see what other people think.

Over the weekend I met a women at a show. I took the initiative to talk to her and we chatted up during set breaks and what not. Ended up having a lot in common. Anyways at the end of the night she asked for my phone # which doesn't seem to be the norm in the given situation . She quickly sent me a text so I had hers. As the rest of the night played out I never brought up what her intentions were about meeting up for a date. Just kinda assumed

 

I was just wondering what you think her intentions were. Are they the same as mine would be?

So ladies what are you intentions when you ask for guy's phone #.

 

It's a good sign of interest at least for that moment. However, it doesn't really matter. She initiated, showed a sign of pursuit first. The ball is now in your court. If you liked her enough, call her and ask her for a date. If she declines, maybe she was just being nice, maybe she changed her mind about you after she got home and thought about it, whatever. If she accepts, go out on a date with her, enjoy the time, keep your emotions, expectations and second guessing or mind reading to a minimum :)

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Exchanging of phone numbers--no matter who or the situation--means stay in touch. Given your set of circumstances, I would guess she wants to go out with you. You should do it already. If she is interested in dating you, you better hurry up because she is probably starting to wonder what is going on in your head since you didn't make the move already!

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She got your number so she could block it. She never wants to speak to you again. You should forget her.

 

/sarcasm

 

I kid I kid. She wants to see you again - preferably on a date. Call her and ask her out. Congrats!

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Yeah I assumed as much. It just seemed un normal so I was caught of guard it left me curious.

 

I reached out today and got the machine... So I left a message and I guess its in her court now and we're playing ball. I don't think late Saturday night till Monday is that long of a wait.

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