haway Posted March 16, 2015 Posted March 16, 2015 We know each other for one & half year and we were friends before he tell me he love me want to commitment . after this we were together then in 2 month ago he tell me he can't commit to me or anyone now because he has a plans for his life like he want to travel by his own money. So marriage will stop his chance for travelling(money issues ) sure i am not shock by his needs because i know it from the beginning but i am shocked he leave me thus cool !! Now we have no contact for 2 weeks And he was keep block & unblock me on facebook but now he just unblock me! !! And not doing his block again !!! I try to contact him before i go to no contact and i ask him if i can call him but he replied to me after 2 days that (why i can't just give myself a chance to forget him ) and he is so sorry that he make me love him while his life isn't stable yet. after this i go to no contact and he block me . Now he keep unblock me ! I feel like he want me to notice and try to contact him. i am afraid if i do anything he will block me & i don't want to end up with horrible and hurt feiling . I don't want to block him too if i block him he will know i was looking i still love him but i don't want to lose him or feiling hurt anymore. i need advice
elliecoffee Posted March 16, 2015 Posted March 16, 2015 But he already told you he can commit to you because you don't fit in his plans. Why would you want to pursue a relationship with him? My advice is move on.
Author haway Posted March 16, 2015 Author Posted March 16, 2015 I still hope it will work if we get back together or at least we remain friends . i deep inside i still have a strong feeling for him i try hard ti continue no contact. I am already hurt and i miss him so much it's hard for me to believe i can move on.
AIJ Posted March 16, 2015 Posted March 16, 2015 I still hope it will work if we get back together or at least we remain friends . i deep inside i still have a strong feeling for him i try hard ti continue no contact. I am already hurt and i miss him so much it's hard for me to believe i can move on. You don't want to 'at least remain friends'. You can't be just friends with someone you have strong feelings for. Imagine how hurt you'll be when he comes to you and tells you about this new girl he's seeing, and how perfect she is, how happy she makes him? Honestly just remove him from Facebook, deactivate your Facebook if you have to, maybe just for a month or two. You need to remove any reminders of him and put up as many barriers as you possibly can to stop yourself from contacting him and stopping him from contacting you. It's over. Accept that. The relationship was BROKEN. Move on. Maybe when you're completely indifferent, and you can happily watch him be with another girl, you can be friends then. But right now, that's not what you need, it's too much for you.
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