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What do you think of women in their 20's that are in the club scene 24/7?


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And of course these women are attractive-sometimes they do VIP bottle service-are always posting pictures of themselves at the dance clubs, or they do some modeling gigs in their spare time. I'm pretty sure they don't have a problem meeting guys and could get snatched up pretty quickly. I guess settling down and having a family seems kind of ridiculous to them? I wonder if they ever feel pressure of marriage and kids from family or friends? People look down at me for being single, I wonder if they get looked down too and think clubbing 24/7 is cheesy?

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I certainly wouldn't think they'd be in any hurry to give all that up and settle down. I also can tell you that they probably won't give a hoot whether anyone looks down on the or not, because those people can do what they want with their lives and have no right to tell someone else they have to do the same. When and if they are tired of having a good time and want a big change, they will settle down, but they'll probably never be down for leading a boring life and will still want to go have fun with their mate.

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And of course these women are attractive-sometimes they do VIP bottle service-are always posting pictures of themselves at the dance clubs, or they do some modeling gigs in their spare time. I'm pretty sure they don't have a problem meeting guys and could get snatched up pretty quickly. I guess settling down and having a family seems kind of ridiculous to them? I wonder if they ever feel pressure of marriage and kids from family or friends? People look down at me for being single, I wonder if they get looked down too and think clubbing 24/7 is cheesy?

 

Not really. We go dancing with friends at a lounge where my friend's daughter is at this big beer vat thing. She sells bottles at 4.50 and gets 50 cents of that....most guys tip at least another 50 cents. She makes a couple hundred dollars from 10pm to 130 pm. During Christmas week extra tips just about paid her whole tuition to nursing college.

 

These girls are usually smart cookies. Usually good social skills to keep the guys buying from them rather than at the bar. Do they want to settle down? They are individuals...not a separate species. Some might...some might not. Some might like strawberry ice cream...some vanilla.

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And of course these women are attractive-sometimes they do VIP bottle service-are always posting pictures of themselves at the dance clubs, or they do some modeling gigs in their spare time. I'm pretty sure they don't have a problem meeting guys and could get snatched up pretty quickly. I guess settling down and having a family seems kind of ridiculous to them? I wonder if they ever feel pressure of marriage and kids from family or friends? People look down at me for being single, I wonder if they get looked down too and think clubbing 24/7 is cheesy?

the only problem is they are not mature yet; but that'll happen soon enough

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I grew out of the club scene at 22 and I'm 25 now so although I'm straight, for me our lifestyles would be too different. I don't really like the mindset of the average clubber. To me it promotes an attitude of alcholism, often promiscuity or at least heavy window shopping and a casual attitude to cash.

 

I'd rather a partner whose into travel than clubs.

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And of course these women are attractive-sometimes they do VIP bottle service-are always posting pictures of themselves at the dance clubs, or they do some modeling gigs in their spare time. I'm pretty sure they don't have a problem meeting guys and could get snatched up pretty quickly. I guess settling down and having a family seems kind of ridiculous to them? I wonder if they ever feel pressure of marriage and kids from family or friends? People look down at me for being single, I wonder if they get looked down too and think clubbing 24/7 is cheesy?

 

Interesting. You've described all of the girls I'm around now after a divorce.

 

These are them.

 

And you can't pass judgment on people. They will do what they want to do. Just enjoy the sex and maybe one will end up with you.

 

That's what i try to do anyway.

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Not really. We go dancing with friends at a lounge where my friend's daughter is at this big beer vat thing. She sells bottles at 4.50 and gets 50 cents of that....most guys tip at least another 50 cents. She makes a couple hundred dollars from 10pm to 130 pm. During Christmas week extra tips just about paid her whole tuition to nursing college.

 

These girls are usually smart cookies. Usually good social skills to keep the guys buying from them rather than at the bar. Do they want to settle down? They are individuals...not a separate species. Some might...some might not. Some might like strawberry ice cream...some vanilla.

 

Yeah, I heard VIP bottle service gals can make alot of money in tips in just 5 hours. Good social skills, flirting with customers, good looks and a hot outfit is what it takes...they are lucky. And its usually upscale clubs too.

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The exact type of woman that I would not want as a girlfriend. They could do what they want with their life, but they wouldn't be the type of woman for me. I would never have interest in a woman that loves to go out drinking & partying a lot.

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The exact type of woman that I would not want as a girlfriend. They could do what they want with their life, but they wouldn't be the type of woman for me. I would never have interest in a woman that loves to go out drinking & partying a lot.

 

Most are not allowed to drink. You have never bartender on a busy evening. I also don't think people who are in the hospitality industry see it as partying...but hard word.

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I wonder if they get looked down too and think clubbing 24/7 is cheesy?

 

These girls are young and just want to party. There isn't any point in judging them because that's what they want to do. They're not hurting anyone by doing what they do. For peace of mind just ignore them and leave them be.

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When I was that age I was a bartender in the hottest club in my area. It was great money & it was like getting paid to party, even though we rarely drank behind the bar because we were just too busy. If you got 2 minutes to gulp down a few swallows of water, it was because you were thirsty not looking to get drunk.

 

 

Flirting was part of it. After hours hook ups happened. It was fun but it wasn't a lifestyle I wanted after I graduated with my degrees & got a real job.

 

 

It is hard work but the money can be good in the right place.

 

 

Just because someone works in that industry doesn't mean it's a forever choice or that they are automatically slutty. Flirting jacks up tips. Dating customers causes problems because your BF will want to punch every other customer you flirt with.

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What do you think of women in their 20's that are in the club scene 24/7?

 

Isn't that the age where young women should be out enjoying themselves? What's the problem?

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They're social people and they use that to make money and live life. Sometimes they just enjoy the nightlife and have good experiences with it. You meet a lot of these kinds of girls as a musician. They're fun!

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What do you think of women in their 20's that are in the club scene 24/7?

 

Isn't that the age where young women should be out enjoying themselves? What's the problem?

She wants to do it too?

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I thank them for all the wonderful tips they gave me when I was a bartender. They helped me buy my first home and I am not kidding about that.

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What do you think of women in their 20's that are in the club scene 24/7?

 

 

 

I'm lost on this one.

 

Who do you think is supposed to be in the club scene?

 

 

Those women are the bread and butter of club success.

 

 

Everybody has a story about a niece/daughter and her attractive friends merely walking down a street in Vegas, and being approached and offered free passes to come to some particular club that night... just to enhance the appeal to the would-be paying (male) customers (who may or may not pause at the club entrance later).

 

 

Furthermore, it just... isn't the saaaaaaaame cast of twenty-something females who are there every night. There are just, enough 20-somethings into going out and meeting potential mates that they can steadily fill the club rosters 7 nights a week.

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Most are not allowed to drink. You have never bartender on a busy evening. I also don't think people who are in the hospitality industry see it as partying...but hard word.

 

What are you even getting at? What do you mean most are not allowed to drink? Women drink all the time. And don't see it as partying? Than what is it when they go out & get completely drunk every weekend? As I said, not my type of woman, but they can do as they please.

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Who's worried about settling down and having kids in their 20s? It's not the 1950s, women can actually have some fun before they settle down.

 

Now the only club scenes I know of that run 24/7 are in Vegas and in Miami. So if you aren't referencing girls in those cities, I don't know who you are referencing. And isn't it rather dramatic to claim they are there that much?

 

I mean who cares what some rando chicks do, why is this a problem to you? Are you jealous you can't enjoy a similar lifestyle?

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If they are making money in the clubs every night then they are smart. If they are spending it every night then it's a problem.

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