assg Posted March 15, 2015 Posted March 15, 2015 2 years together and she broke up with me telling me she wasn't good enough for me that i deserved better ,she also said she doesn't love me anymore all by phone she refuses to see me because she says it's useless , first night without her can't even describe how it feels any comment would help i guess
acapelo_dp Posted March 15, 2015 Posted March 15, 2015 I'm really sorry to hear that you are in pain. I know how you feel, I am going through a break up right now that happened three weeks ago. The first week is the worst. Just know that she isn't the right one for you. I know it seems hard to think that right now, but feelings change and people change all the time. You will get through this, I promise. Right now it's important to go no contact and don't plead or beg, it really won't help. 1
geronimo Posted March 15, 2015 Posted March 15, 2015 Yea dude first few weeks are the worst, you just have to tough it out. Trust me when i tell you DO NOT contact her at all. Its for your own good. Most of us on here, including me, made the mistake of begging and pleading with the girl and it gets you no where. Save your dignity and move on. You just have to concentrate on yourself now, take your time, let your emotions play out, talk to friends and post on here. If its meant to be she will come back on her own. But its out of your hands now and you just gotta work on yourself from here on out. Goodluck bro. 2
BlackbirdSong Posted March 15, 2015 Posted March 15, 2015 I'm sorry to hear that. I'm going on week 6 and I'm still devastated, but it does get a little better after week 1. Going through the different phases of a breakup is really tough (as I'm experiencing). Just stay No Contact and avoid checking up on her social media or trying to see her. It will get better.
Author assg Posted March 15, 2015 Author Posted March 15, 2015 thanks guys it really help me reading this
redglass Posted March 15, 2015 Posted March 15, 2015 Very sorry to hear. It really is the worst feeling in the world. One of my boyfriends broke up with me and refused to talk about it or answer the phone. That feeling of panic and hopelessness is so, so terrifying and painful. It is going to be really, really tough for a few weeks - I'm sorry to say this, but there isn't a way around it. You just need time. There are, however, a couple of things that can make it slightly more bearable. Keeping active and seeing your friends will help take your mind off things, and hopefully prevent you from contacting her. Just keep reminding yourself that this feeling will not last. You WILL feel better. Don't give yourself a hard time for the next couple of weeks - do things you enjoy, don't feel bad if you have a few wobbly moments and allow yourself a few days to do everything you like to do.
na49 Posted March 15, 2015 Posted March 15, 2015 She broke up with you, saying that she wasn't good enough for you? Can someone explain that to me? Also, I'm sorry you are going through this man, but just remember that you aren't alone. We are all in this together, and the people who tell you that it will get better aren't lying. Time is your best friend right now. It just happened, so it is okay to spend a few days crying to mourn your loss. Let all of your emotions out if you feel you need to.
Author assg Posted March 15, 2015 Author Posted March 15, 2015 she just said that want explanations too you know ..
CopingGal Posted March 16, 2015 Posted March 16, 2015 She said she's not good enough for you? What a liar! She sounds like a buffoon.
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