FrostBlaze Posted March 15, 2015 Posted March 15, 2015 Premise: We are a group of friends, new girl joins group, i like her, she is very outgoing and charming/social. Jokes a lot. Did so with me, picked on me, made jokes, included me in most her convo's. We hit it off slow, as i chase she is the same as i know her, kept playing hard to get. After being intimate for a few times and she develops more feelings for me, looks me up daily she changed...but only arround me. She is more nervous now, doeesn't joke as much, does not tease me with jokes, just sex. She seems more shy now with me. It is sad, because i see her have so much fun and being lively with her friends. Not to say she isn't lively with me, but very cautious... What could it be? I want her to be herself .
d0nnivain Posted March 16, 2015 Posted March 16, 2015 If you were intimate & didn't make her your exclusive GF after that she is now cautious around you because she thinks you have rejected her.
Frank2thepoint Posted March 16, 2015 Posted March 16, 2015 I'm guessing she is nervous because she has feelings for you, but doesn't know how to convey them. She may feel you'll reject her. As to why she doesn't tease you or joke around as much is because of her feelings. She doesn't want others around her to know you two are just having sex, but not a couple. So maybe she's a bit embarrassed. You should have a discussion with her, get her to talk about it. 1
Author FrostBlaze Posted March 16, 2015 Author Posted March 16, 2015 She knows how i feel. Would not reject her if she told me, but she has yet to say anything. ^^ I'm pretty sure she knows that too. Been intimate more than once and in this day and age i thought it's pretty obvious, since we do all these things toghether. Didn't think i had to label the situation, seemed clear what we are. I guess she might not be sure.
Frank2thepoint Posted March 16, 2015 Posted March 16, 2015 Been intimate more than once and in this day and age i thought it's pretty obvious, since we do all these things toghether. Didn't think i had to label the situation, seemed clear what we are. Assumption is the mother of all f*ckups. Communication is one of the most important aspects of any relationship. Talk to her, ask her what she wants, and express what you want. If both of you are on the same page of wanting to be together, then say you guys are in a relationship. Real simple. 2
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