Author Omei Posted March 23, 2015 Author Posted March 23, 2015 Nope didn't work. The smoke smell and toll its taken on him from it were too much, the ex talk was constant to a point where I grew totally uninterested. (things im not willing to take on) No mental connection. I thanked him for the date said goodbye he didn't ask why so that's good guess he felt the same way as well he was very gentleman like tho.
fitnessfan365 Posted March 23, 2015 Posted March 23, 2015 That sucks that you didn't find out about the smoking a lot sooner on. It's a deal breaker for me too. After all, no one wants to kiss an ash tray or be around that smell all the time. But at least now you learned not to invest so much time before meeting. Hopefully the next one works out.
BlackOpsZombieGirl Posted March 23, 2015 Posted March 23, 2015 Nope didn't work. The smoke smell and toll its taken on him from it were too much, the ex talk was constant to a point where I grew totally uninterested. (things im not willing to take on) No mental connection. I thanked him for the date said goodbye he didn't ask why so that's good guess he felt the same way as well he was very gentleman like tho. Sorry it didn't work out, Omei. Yeah, smoking is an absolute deal breaker for me; I made a thread on it last month I think. And, he talked about his EX on your FIRST date together? Holy crap. That sucks. "But at least now you learned not to invest so much time before meeting. Hopefully the next one works out." ^^^ FF is right about this. And it's a rule I live by when I date. Chat/message/e-mail/text/talk on the phone for a week to see if there's anything there at all; if there is, then the guy usually sets up a time and place for the first date. If communication goes beyond a week, then expectations and notions start to set in that will most likely not match the real deal. Ya live and ya learn. *sigh* .
Author Omei Posted March 24, 2015 Author Posted March 24, 2015 I dont mind the time it took to find out with the cancellations it made everything really long I don't mind the time I invested I don't get disappointed when I find out they are not right for me I don't wanna settle for just anyone. He def wasn't up to cleaniness for me with the smoking total lack of hygiene. Online guys dont seem very together and none of them seem to be ever close to family its super hard to find someone normal on those sites
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