MrNeruz Posted March 15, 2015 Posted March 15, 2015 I am a boy of 16 years. I have met a friend over a game. We have known each other for over half a year before we decided to meet. We could write everything together, and we were each other's best friends, and I loved her. I always felt a certain joy when I wrote to her, she was everything. We are meeting here last weekend, but it was just too bad we were not talking and it all was awkward. She said that it was best that I went home, but I tried the to do something to improve it. Eventually I was sad, at her home. Now she says that she does not want to have anything to do with me more ... She has written that we should just forget each other even though we had such a good friendship before, and she held me. I have written to her if we can not do anything to improve it, but she just write that it is best if we forget each other. She said that the reason why she did not care ... It was due. For my style of dress and I was boring ... But I said it was the first time we are meeting and it can always change? Hu Hvaaad should I do? Because I really do not want to lose her forever ...
d0nnivain Posted March 15, 2015 Posted March 15, 2015 Oh dear. You are learning three of life's painful lessons simultaneously. 1. An OL relationship is just fantasy & doesn't mean anything until you meet. 2. Some people are shallow / superficial. For this girl to drop you because she doesn't like the way you dress makes her someone unworthy of you. She's into things that don't matter --clothes & looks -- while rejecting a genuine person. 3. When one person in a relationship wants out, they get what they want & the person who wants to stay & work on the relationship gets hurt. This girl discarded you for the worst of reasons. She is not worth the devotion you want to bestow on her so yes, I do think you should leave her & get on with your life without her. Perhaps see if there is a girl in your class who you can date more conventionally who likes you for you, wardrobe and all. Good luck. 1
Redhead14 Posted March 15, 2015 Posted March 15, 2015 I am a boy of 16 years. I have met a friend over a game. We have known each other for over half a year before we decided to meet. We could write everything together, and we were each other's best friends, and I loved her. I always felt a certain joy when I wrote to her, she was everything. We are meeting here last weekend, but it was just too bad we were not talking and it all was awkward. She said that it was best that I went home, but I tried the to do something to improve it. Eventually I was sad, at her home. Now she says that she does not want to have anything to do with me more ... She has written that we should just forget each other even though we had such a good friendship before, and she held me. I have written to her if we can not do anything to improve it, but she just write that it is best if we forget each other. She said that the reason why she did not care ... It was due. For my style of dress and I was boring ... But I said it was the first time we are meeting and it can always change? Hu Hvaaad should I do? Because I really do not want to lose her forever ... She was not the right girl for you. You will find a girl who loves you for you, just the way you are. Wait for that girl. Yes, you will be sad for a little while. That's OK. Spend a few minutes each day for a few days to feel sad and then at the end of that time, pull yourself together and then do something you really like to do. Call a friend and play video games, or play football, keep busy. You're young, you should be having fun. 1
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