Troy12 Posted March 15, 2015 Share Posted March 15, 2015 So my ex gf and I dated for about 2 years and broke up about 2 months ago. I initiated the break up then regretted it and wanted her back but she didn't. I'm only in town on weekends and move back for good in May so she said she wanted to wait til then to try again and see how she feels then. She just didn't want a relationship right now. We still frequently talk and she's been initiating texts more frequently so I decided to ask her if she wanted to meet up. Last night we met up for drinks at a bar that was suppose to be one drink but lasted about 2 and a half hours. Things went really well and casual for the most part. She asked about my dating life and I said good and she gave the same reply. At first things were more like friends and she didn't seem all there but as the night progressed we became closer to where we had playful touching and got closer to one another. Towards the end she gave me looks like she use to and asked what I was doing after drinks then she started to speak but stopped. She asked me to walk her to her car where she hugged me tightly for half a minute or so then we said our goodbyes and left. It was really more friendly at first but became more like a date towards the end and she even mentioned that it looked like we were on a date at the end. I don't know exactly how she perceived it though and don't want to scare her off so from here I'm sort of wondering where do I go? Should I take it as a date or a friendly meeting? For the next 6 weeks I'm only in town on weekends so it's not like I can really push things too fast, but next weekend should I try to get her to meet up again or should I let her decide if things progress? Link to post Share on other sites
moonflower Posted March 15, 2015 Share Posted March 15, 2015 Take being away from the town and only being there at the weekends as a chance to slowly building things up again. She seems confused because you left her and now you want her back but in between these events there is a time that she was sad/angry/in pain because of the break up. Although she got close to you, she still cannot be sure about you two, so you can take these weekends to have little dates; not like a serious relationship, but rather a phase that you two are trying to bond again and feel on good terms no matter you get back together or not in the end Link to post Share on other sites
Author Troy12 Posted March 15, 2015 Author Share Posted March 15, 2015 I know I can't go into this expecting anything, but how does it sound like she viewed it? Do my chances for restarting things between us look promising based on how she eventually appeared to feel? We haven't spoken since last night so should I wait to see if she initiates something or should I just initiate and keep it casual like before we got together? Link to post Share on other sites
Recommended Posts