Should I play with her back?

[RLG]

( Let met start by correcting the tittle, my bad on that one SHOULD I PLAY HER BACK)

my exGF, who after the break up knows what she did and me I was blind due too much love for her, I got played,used, etc etc. You name. I know it, I noticed all of it afterwards but it was too late. Thats already done, it already happen. Experience learned. That doesnt bother me anymore, im ten times the man I was before. But know, this!

 

I chase, I begged etc etc all the mistakes in the book to the point she told me to Fck Off. To the point that I was upsetting her and she changed her phone number(that we both were still sharing on the same phone plan) earlier than she told me which was at the end of this month. Then she out of the nowhere tells me she presently met someone and wants to see where that goes!! Really, you gonna tell me that after all I did for you. JA no respect huh?.

 

Anyways the things is she still have my taxes and she has to mail those to me, I send her my address to her Facebook (since I couldn't contact her anymore thru phone).

 

Then one day after sending her the address to her Facebook, She texts me from her NEW PHONE NUMBER!!! asking me for the address again!

 

Now, what is her game? She knows I bombarded her old number with messages etc etc..you know all the classic mistakes, she knows I could do the same to her new number and annoy her(which I wont, I learned from my past mistakes, im over that. XP GAINED) but I get the feeling she is expecting me to to the same, maybe she likes the attention an ass kissing!!

 

It could be that she just wanna get rid of any ties and just get the whole my taxes thing over with, but She coulda have just send me a message to my facebook!!! There was no need for her to give me her new number..that is the part that it makes me wonder what sup with her! Again, instead of messaging me straight to my phone from her new number she coulda have reached me once more from facebook.

 

I kinda wanna play her back, im with a girl now, she doesnt go thru my phone, But I would like to reply: (and correct me if this is not a good ide)

 

HER:

Hey, if you can send me the address again to send you that.

 

Girlfriend:( this is me making it look like is my girlfriend answering who just found a random message on my phone, Girlfriend madness - )

Who the F is this?

 

Her:

Im <name>, you know who I am RLG whats you problem? (the answer I expect)

 

Girlfriend:

No this is not RLG, this is RLG Girlfriend, who are the f are you? anyways Ill ask him when he wakes up , he is sleeping now. BYE

 

What you think guys, nah doesn't fit! or should I. I kinda hate the fact who she did at the break up, even more hate the fact that I love my ex but im over the part of acting like a pussy. Which is the mistakes most fellas are here on this forum regretting and their ex are more than over with them..Like mine. Still, why in the hell she would give me her new number!!

 

If I should just simply reply instead of the previous with this also let me know:

 

Who is this

Im <name> send me your address

<Address>

 

That is it, brief and simple.

 

Which way I should go? She is narcissist that why sometimes I do wanna play her back to see she aint dealing with that begging Man she left.

Edited March 15, 2015 by RLG

[gnick]

If you need those tax documents I think I would play it cool untill you get them

[RLG]

If you need those tax documents I think I would play it cool untill you get them

 

True..but she has to send it to me anyways. She knows that.

[ZiggyZoo]

DON'T RESPOND AT ALL. You knew what kind of answer you were going to get here. You sent your address to her FB, no need to text it to her. She's trying to get a rise out of you, and she has. Acting like you have a girlfriend is beyond sad. Grow up and show her that you're over her by not feeding into her BS.

 

There are plenty of other ways you can get those tax documents...call the place and have them sent to your new address. See if they're available on-line. There's two. You don't need to go through her.

[RLG]

DON'T RESPOND AT ALL. You knew what kind of answer you were going to get here. You sent your address to her FB, no need to text it to her. She's trying to get a rise out of you, and she has. Acting like you have a girlfriend is beyond sad. Grow up and show her that you're over her by not feeding into her BS.

 

Bro, I think you missread badly. I DO HAVE A GIRLFRIEND:p, but I dont let her go thru my ****, less my phone. Hell no. I just wanted to hit my ex in the face that I am in a relationship too..just like she did to me by telling me. I dont need to act ****, because If I didnt had a girlfriend, then I dont have one and w.e.

 

You are damn right tho..whoever plays that game by acting to have one it is sad.

[RLG]

DON'T RESPOND AT ALL. You knew what kind of answer you were going to get here. You sent your address to her FB, no need to text it to her. She's trying to get a rise out of you, and she has. Acting like you have a girlfriend is beyond sad. Grow up and show her that you're over her by not feeding into her BS.

 

There are plenty of other ways you can get those tax documents...call the place and have them sent to your new address. See if they're available on-line. There's two. You don't need to go through her.

 

Also I know she is trying to get a reaction out of me, makes me wonder.

 

Did she deleted the Facebook messages I send her,,then that is why she is asking again thru phone!!. Obviously like I said she could just have send me another message to my facebook. If she wants a reaction out of me..uff I wish her luck with that.

[ZiggyZoo]

http://www.loveshack.org/forums/breaking-up-reconciliation-coping/breaks-breaking-up/518087-i-ask-you-read-my-soul-being-eaten-immense-regrets

 

You have a girlfriend now?! Seriously? This is your post from March 3, if you recall. I don't even know what to say. You need to disengage from this mess that you're in and move on. Don't respond, that's the best thing for a narcissist. Get your tax stuff another way.

 

Oh, and by the way, I'm not a bro. I'm a woman, which I've pointed out to you on at least one of my other posts.

[RLG]

http://www.loveshack.org/forums/breaking-up-reconciliation-coping/breaks-breaking-up/518087-i-ask-you-read-my-soul-being-eaten-immense-regrets

 

You have a girlfriend now?! Seriously? This is your post from March 3, if you recall. I don't even know what to say. You need to disengage from this mess that you're in and move on. Don't respond, that's the best thing for a narcissist. Get your tax stuff another way.

 

Oh, and by the way, I'm not a bro. I'm a woman, which I've pointed out to you on at least one of my other posts.

 

1- First My apologies,I just read that part where you mentioned that, apologies again for calling you a bro.

 

2- Yes, I posted that on march 3, but while I was a disaster because all of I have explained, I was dating this girl. I wasn't in to her, no feeling towards her whatsoever. I wast putting any effort in it. Just plain dating and going out to distract my mind.

 

3- 2 days ago , I woke way different from who I was before, from the night to the morning. My mindset is on another lever now that I cant even phantom. So I gave this girl the chance to get closer to me instead of just plain going out with her for no reason.In short words I accepted when she asked me to get in to a relationship, which was days ago but I told her I'm not up for that right now. Just told her recently we can go give a try and take it slowly for now.

 

4- If my exGF knock on my door just tomorrow begging me to take her back, I would kick my current Girlfriend to the curve and take my ex back. I know is not the right decision but I do love my ex who obviously is a bit of a narcissist I would say..nevertheless Is just the way I feel about her, I love her. However I know that wont happen, it would be a miracle if it does and again..it just wont happen, I'm not expecting it, I'm not looking ahead in a future that it will. Is more than over. (only if god comes down to earth and uses his heavenly magic on her that would be the only way that would happen)

 

5-I already disengage from all of it, actually never feel better. No more regrets,no more morning tears because I coulda have done better in the relationship with her and I coulda have done better after the break up.

I feel great,, im actually a whole different person. I don't dwell in the past no more I actually don't give a damn about it, I got great things coming up in my future and im looking forwards to it.

 

6- Yes I might do that, just get my taxes and get it over with..still she is something isn't she . I wasn't expecting from her to text me from her new number since I know how I bugged her and I thought there was no way she would give me her new #. IN her mind it would only cause for her annoyance because me she thinks I would do the whole chasing and texting all over again...so I told myself there was no way I would ever know her new cell #..and yet there it is!!. awww my ex...she is def something jajaja.

[AdamantyumKrystal]

well girls/women are weird man... my opinion is to not go so harsh on her,especially if u said u might still love her , you could just act normally and be confident and look as happy as u are! if u try to play rude with her she might see thru ur plays and consider u a jerk or immature slut,but instead if you show her the new you and only responding when she contacts without harrassing her like u did in previous mistakes then she will sense that she lost the power and you'll see that she will start acting differently i suggest u leave a good impression on her and then leave her alone till she contacts u again

[d0nnivain]

I have bad news for you. You aren't over her. If you were, you would be indifferent. The fact that you are spending all this time & energy trying to dream up ways to mess with her head, tells me you still want her back.

 

 

Be fair to your new GF. Acknowledge that she is a rebound.

 

 

Now, work on being fully over your EX.

 

 

Also don't reply to her pretending to be your new GF. It's childish & petty. You are better than that. Act like it.

[sabd]

You're behaving like a jerk to your new girlfriend.

You're obsessing over your ex and planning to screw with her head.

 

You have a lot of growing up to do.

 

Until you can treat women with respect, best you not get involved with anyone.