Mittens Posted March 15, 2015 Posted March 15, 2015 So you are basically saying that it is okay for your ex to have depression, but not for your 'fling'... Okay, mark you as a hypocrite for one... And then you wonder why your 'fling' got upset and had a go at both you and your 'ex' after having an abortion? And actually have the ****ing gall to post about how your 'ex' has 'self control' and 'self respect'? This, after you ignored your 'fling' after she had the abortion? Mark you as a complete ignorant self serving bastard for two... And now you are sharing her bipolar condition with mutual friends...no doubt without her permission, and you have the almighty ****ing nerve to be annoyed because your fling has contacted you to know why? And you call it harassment? Mark you as a complete lowlife cunt for three... BTW, being bipolar is a form of depression. It is not being 'insane' God alone knows why she is reaching out to you for support, because I doubt you even know how to spell the ****ing word. It's a damn shame your 'ex' didn't have an abortion as well. Horrific to think that in twenty years time there will be another one of you out there. 6
Author piday Posted March 15, 2015 Author Posted March 15, 2015 I did not ignore her after the abortion. I still spoke to her, and since it was too soon to have sex following the abortion, she gave me a blow job. ( see, self respect?) also, she messaged me her I'm lonely, and asked me to a concert during this time. I did not respond to her wishing her friends lived here, and VERY politely turned down the concert saying " maybe, but don't count on it". THEN she blew up about my ex. She started off with saying she had regrets about the abortion and it turned into an attack on my ex. i'm sorry, but if my ex needed me that night, why shoud I have dropped anything to go and talk to her? and again, she asked a couple of times, I explained I was renovating the exes house, she would say " okay" then blew up randomly one night rather than wait until I was free to meet. So. It is not the abortion that made me stop speaking to her. It was when I was obviously pulling away and then she blew up. I would have met her for a coffee, and was planning to, but instead she chose to lose it. I'm sorry, this is a her, not me. I'm not a horrible person for not wanting to hold her hand through her sh*t.
Author piday Posted March 15, 2015 Author Posted March 15, 2015 and my ex. That child was planned, and I pay child support, child care, and have him 50/50. No need to say a very loved, well cared for child should have been aborted.
joyfulgirl79 Posted March 15, 2015 Posted March 15, 2015 well, one way to answer is to go a forum mentioned by said person you were sleeping with and pour your heart out. thanks.
katiegrl Posted March 15, 2015 Posted March 15, 2015 >>I'm not a horrible person for not wanting to hold her hand through her sh*t..<< Beg to differ... in fact to the contrary, that fact becomes more and more apparent in every response you post... 4
Satu Posted March 15, 2015 Posted March 15, 2015 The OP just doesn't care about anything other than his own comfort. Goodbye thread. 1
MidwestUSA Posted March 17, 2015 Posted March 17, 2015 Other posters suggested a vasectomy. Aftee two pages of this thread I volunteer to do it free of charge. Are you trained in castrations as well? 1
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