Hopeful30 Posted March 14, 2015 Posted March 14, 2015 Long story short: I am attracted to a shy guy, he likes me too. He doesnt make moves but shows interest every time we run into each other. I started some messaging convos which went no where (hes terrible at reading cues). In other words, I have to be blunt, but blatantly stating "lets be f*** buddies" might kill the excitement. How else can I approach him?
katiegrl Posted March 14, 2015 Posted March 14, 2015 Long story short: I am attracted to a shy guy, he likes me too. He doesnt make moves but shows interest every time we run into each other. I started some messaging convos which went no where (hes terrible at reading cues). In other words, I have to be blunt, but blatantly stating "lets be f*** buddies" might kill the excitement. How else can I approach him? Probably none of my business...but since you're attracted to him and like him, why you only want to be f*** buddies? But since that is all you want, ask him for a drink, and then invite him back to your place. Sit close to him, and when the time is right kiss him....and just take it from there. 4
DoesntGetIt Posted March 14, 2015 Posted March 14, 2015 you know what doesn't kill the mood for guys? Asking if they want to **** or be **** buddies. Just be straight with it.
Imported Posted March 14, 2015 Posted March 14, 2015 If you eat with him, bring stuff or order stuff for him that you think makes semen taste better. When he starts eating it, smile and explain that you heard that makes semen taste better.
Author Hopeful30 Posted March 14, 2015 Author Posted March 14, 2015 (edited) Probably none of my business...but since you're attracted to him and like him, why you only want to be f*** buddies? But since that is all you want, ask him for a drink, and then invite him back to your place. Sit close to him, and when the time is right kiss him....and just take it from there. Its a reasonable question. Im not looking for anything right now. I just want to get laid lol. He isnt the kind of guy I would date anyways, too young mentally. Edited March 14, 2015 by Hopeful30
gaius Posted March 14, 2015 Posted March 14, 2015 You could just start another conversation, tell him you think he's cute and you want to meet up. Take it from there. I wouldn't get your hopes up though, shy guys are usually shy because they're trying to ward off intimacy. I bet 5 bucks he runs away no matter what you do. =/ 2
guest569 Posted March 14, 2015 Posted March 14, 2015 Does he tell you he likes you? Does he make any moves? 1
fitnessfan365 Posted March 14, 2015 Posted March 14, 2015 Since ACTIONS SPEAK LOUDER THAN WORDS, next time you're out with him walk up to him, and kiss him. If he is attracted to you like you think he is, he won't be shy after that. 2
loveweary11 Posted March 14, 2015 Posted March 14, 2015 Give this guy some excitement and fun! Attack him. Forcefully hook up with him. He'll remember it the rest of his life and you'll instantly start a fwb without all the awkward bs. 1
somedude81 Posted March 14, 2015 Posted March 14, 2015 Long story short: I am attracted to a shy guy, he likes me too. He doesnt make moves but shows interest every time we run into each other. I started some messaging convos which went no where (hes terrible at reading cues). In other words, I have to be blunt, but blatantly stating "lets be f*** buddies" might kill the excitement. How else can I approach him? Invite him over to your place to watch movies and have some drinks. When you feel frisky, jump on him.
Destined2B Posted March 14, 2015 Posted March 14, 2015 Its a reasonable question. Im not looking for anything right now. I just want to get laid lol. He isnt the kind of guy I would date anyways, too young mentally. Best to be upfront with him about your attraction and your intentions. Last thing you wanna do is hurt shy guy's feelings. 2
Author Hopeful30 Posted March 15, 2015 Author Posted March 15, 2015 Does he tell you he likes you? Does he make any moves? I thought he did. I assume a hand on the waist, a hum in my ear and when I tell him not to touch me or I will pounce on him, he continue to touch my arm or whatever. Yet when I start a conversation via text or what not, I always initiate and I get no where. Thats why Im confused.
elliecoffee Posted March 15, 2015 Posted March 15, 2015 Personally, I don't believe shy people won't make any moves because they're too shy to read any cues. If he hasn't made a move even though all your cues, I don't think he's interested. But if you want' to make sure, go straight up to him and tell him what you're thinking. I'm telling you that because I'm really shy and whenever I get cues, signals, smoke signs, whatever, from someone I'm not interested in, I ignore it all together because I don't want to deal with the hassle of explaining why or dealing with that person intentions. But when I'm interested, even if I'm not too sure about his feelings, I try my best to approach him. Good luck though! xx 2
fitnessfan365 Posted March 15, 2015 Posted March 15, 2015 You don't have to be an extrovert to be confident. If a guy wants a woman bad enough, he'll man up and make a move. But I still say that if you want to know that badly, why not just be aggressive and make the first move. I know that as a woman, you want the guy to and I agree that's how it should be. But sometimes if you want something badly enough, you have to step outside your gender and just be a sexual beast.
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