alexwood Posted March 14, 2015 Posted March 14, 2015 when you beg and try to get your ex back but they keep saying no you finally stop talking to them and then you realize they are likely thinking "thank gosh" ouch
Satu Posted March 14, 2015 Posted March 14, 2015 The begging is seen as being repulsive by many people. Cross it off your list of behaviours. 1
HBK3317 Posted March 14, 2015 Posted March 14, 2015 People who make you beg, cry and don't seem to give a damn that you love them so much are the ones we should be thankful to because if they did give a damn we would be settling for way less than we deserve. Also f*ck them.
Satu Posted March 14, 2015 Posted March 14, 2015 Nobody makes anyone beg. It's something that someone does or doesn't decide to do. 3
Jonp219 Posted March 14, 2015 Posted March 14, 2015 Nobody makes anyone beg. It's something that someone does or doesn't decide to do. I agree with this. Nobody makes us beg or plead for someone. I didn't have to do it, I did it because i loved her. However, if she were to tell you, "get on your hands and knees and beg" then that person is ruthless. 1
HBK3317 Posted March 14, 2015 Posted March 14, 2015 It's not out of choice. Its like the last resort, the only thing left you can do to make someone stop from ripping your heart out and see things like you see them.
Satu Posted March 14, 2015 Posted March 14, 2015 You decide what you do. There is no mysterious external force controlling your actions.
jus d'orange Posted March 14, 2015 Posted March 14, 2015 I agree with Satu. I got pathetic and asked for an ex in the past not to break up with me. I could've not done it and it would've been better, because I felt ashamed afterward. When my most recent ex said she wasn't sure she wanted to stay together, we talked about it extensively the first time and we stayed together another couple months. But when she broke up with me a month ago, I didn't beg. I wanted so badly to tell her not to go, but I knew that there wasn't anything I could say or do, and so I held my dignity together and just let the conversation come to an end and went NC. I'm still hurting every day, but I am so glad that I did not beg. Plus, I highly doubt begging and pleading does anything but guarantee that there could never be any kind of reconciliation. It really pushes somebody away. 2
Hopeful714 Posted March 14, 2015 Posted March 14, 2015 Someone once told me saying. It was: "No one ever has to ask me to leave twice" Thought it made a lot of sense......... 3
sabd Posted March 16, 2015 Posted March 16, 2015 It's not out of choice. Its like the last resort, the only thing left you can do to make someone stop from ripping your heart out and see things like you see them. Nonsense. No-one is holding a gun to your head. You have ABSOLUTE control over your thinking and behaviour. What you think and do under any and all circumstances is your choice. You trying to make anyone do anything speaks volumes about your control issues. 1
ManyDissapoint Posted March 16, 2015 Posted March 16, 2015 Nonsense. No-one is holding a gun to your head. You have ABSOLUTE control over your thinking and behaviour. What you think and do under any and all circumstances is your choice. You trying to make anyone do anything speaks volumes about your control issues. Begging and pleading does not come from a need to control other people. It usually comes from a desire to make the pain stop. It is still extremely unhealthy for the damage it does to your self esteem, but I think it's natural and ultimately character building for people to go through that....once.
sabd Posted March 16, 2015 Posted March 16, 2015 Completely disagree in this circumstance: make someone stop from ripping your heart out and see things like you see themThis is all about control. People who panic when things don't go their own way and want to MAKE others think about and do things things a certain way most certainly have control issues.
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