AntonJ Posted March 14, 2015 Posted March 14, 2015 Ok, first of all my ex left me 6-7 months ago. The reason for this is what many call "GIGS" or "Grass is Greener Syndrome"... Personally I am not a fan of the word "Syndrome" as it makes it sound like a some sort of decease... But anyways: In the beginning of the break up she would make contact every now and then. It is very clear to me now that she just needed to keep me around "just in case"... Classic GIGS behaviour I guess. It hurt me to much so I have been ignoring her for the last 5 months, and removed her form all social sites. A few months ago she started to like my posts on Instagram again. Attention seeking if you ask me. I am not reacting to any of these likes. I am not just a backup. Now I see on her Instagram that she has started writing about "a very sweet guy"... Hmmm... Ok. And the next day: "An entire weekend without my sweety, miss him already"... Ok I can accept that. No problem. I know what GIGS is all about and I am really 100% confident knowing that she will NEVER find man as great as me. So I have no problem with her dating. Date all the loosers you want However... I wanted to check out who the guy was. (Dont judge me, I just wanted to know if she had up- or down-graded) However... NOTHING indicates who it is. I looked at her Instagram, and Facebook. No person is ever tagged in her posts. And when I look over her posts it is ONLY girls that likes and comments on them... No guys, besides a few that are in a longterm relationship already... What is your oppinions? Could she simply just be faking to get my attention??
Ruby65 Posted March 14, 2015 Posted March 14, 2015 Maybe she has a relationship in real life. Stop snooping, block her everywhere and move on for real! 1
lana-banana Posted March 14, 2015 Posted March 14, 2015 Maybe he doesn't want her to post a lot about him. Or maybe her boyfriend doesn't have Facebook and/or Instagram. You are seriously overthinking this! It's kind of pathetic to assume that A) she would make someone up just to make you jealous and B) he's not real because he's not on her social media pages. Like the above poster said, you need to block her and start focusing on your own life.
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