Luna1 Posted March 14, 2015 Posted March 14, 2015 RANDOM QUESTION I know someone and have asked about him He works in entertainment field. He is a good looking guy who exhibits an air of mystery because of his calm and quiet exterior. He rarely talks to other people except for a select group of people. Now there are lots of women who have fallen for him including teenage girls, female colleagues and even the female hosts who held shows where he was invited to. The female hosts were like saying I love you, dancing with him, touching his face on stage. One of them asked him out twice , once when she visited the cast of the show on sets and once on TV to which he said "Nice to hear so". His colleagues were another bunch of lusty girls. One of them used to follow him on Instagram before she unfollowed him when he did not follow her back nor interacted much with her. Another was his co actor playing his wife, she had tweeted him , saying well deserved award and heartiest congratulations when he received an award, but he did not respond to her tweet. Another was playing his mother and she had stunning chemistry with him, she also said publicly that her favourite scenes were with him and she likes him best. And there was another girl who has joined a new show he's working on and had tweeted him saying it was nice to see him again and congratulating him but he did not respond to her tweet either. Then you have many other girls who love him and want to date him. He is educated, was an engineer before. And is very serious about his career. Rarely interacts with people except close friends. And he does talk to his female colleagues but it's just talking terms, no friendships, except some of them. I also like him very much. But I would like to know why he is so cold towards women of entertainment field? He is not interested in having a girlfriend from there?
No Limit Posted March 14, 2015 Posted March 14, 2015 He's a professional, unlike his female colleagues. It's stories like these that make me feel uneasy about those campaigns demanding women percentages in the higher career levels. Very few women are like Merkel, ruling an entire country and cleverly taking out her competition. And if he hasn't made it obvious enough - no, he doesn't want a relationship with any of his co-workers.
E-Squared Posted March 14, 2015 Posted March 14, 2015 It's the same thing as dating coworkers. It's not always a good thing. Sure, some work out, but not always.
MissBee Posted March 14, 2015 Posted March 14, 2015 His coldness could be for several reasons: He has strong boundaries between business and pleasure so tries to keep things professional. He could simply be socially awkward and not really know how to interact with women in that manner. He could just be more career oriented and dating isn't on his radar at all. He may not be sexuality interested in women period, he could be gay. He could just be a person who relates in a very cold way in general. There are people like that who are that way with everyone. Based on all you're saying it seems as though if he likes a woman it will be up to him to pursue and let her know as all others who've been falling over themselves get ignored so my advice to you is that if he knows you and hasn't expressed interest he's probably not interested. Do you know who he's dated before? 1
spiderowl Posted March 14, 2015 Posted March 14, 2015 He could prefer to date away from work, but I doubt that any red-blooded male who was really attracted to a woman would give upon her because she worked in the same field. He could have Aspergers and therefore not see that women are flirting with him and stick to his boundaries (whatever he has defined them as being). Maybe he's not interested in women, full stop!
thefooloftheyear Posted March 14, 2015 Posted March 14, 2015 His coldness could be for several reasons: He has strong boundaries between business and pleasure so tries to keep things professional. He could simply be socially awkward and not really know how to interact with women in that manner. He could just be more career oriented and dating isn't on his radar at all. He may not be sexuality interested in women period, he could be gay. He could just be a person who relates in a very cold way in general. There are people like that who are that way with everyone. Based on all you're saying it seems as though if he likes a woman it will be up to him to pursue and let her know as all others who've been falling over themselves get ignored so my advice to you is that if he knows you and hasn't expressed interest he's probably not interested. Do you know who he's dated before? Most women have horrible gay-dar....I think you may be onto something there.. TFY
E-Squared Posted March 15, 2015 Posted March 15, 2015 Why is this really so hard to grasp? This guy probably sees these women in a professional level or maybe would choose not to date anybody he works with. Sure, I can say that if I were a journalist and/or photographer in a field where it involved beautiful women, like models for example, I probably would go for it, but in another perspective, I would not go for them like that.
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