toolforgrowth Posted April 27, 2015 Posted April 27, 2015 See it from a positive point of view - the other girl is stuck with him for life. You're free. This is a very good point! She's stuck with him, and you're not. No chains for you.
Author SoUnsure78 Posted April 27, 2015 Author Posted April 27, 2015 See it from a positive point of view - the other girl is stuck with him for life. You're free. I have looked at it from that point of view. At least I can just walk away, she has to deal with him for the rest of her life. 3
10thengineerharrison Posted May 18, 2015 Posted May 18, 2015 What I hope I am showing my kids is that everybody deserves the benefit of the doubt. Maybe I am doing the wrong thing, but I just feel like I have to see it through. In case nobody else comments on this, I wanted to before I left this page. Apologies up front if it's already been addressed. This explains to me why you stayed with the guy for so long after most people would walk away. I think it's noble of you to want to show this to your kids. But this is your relationship, not theirs or anybody else's. Don't feel like you should have to sacrifice your own emotional well-being to show how magnanimous you can be. -10th Engineer Harrison
10thengineerharrison Posted May 18, 2015 Posted May 18, 2015 Okay, finished reading and see the update. I agree that this is good news for you in the long run. I also agree that it is critically important that you block any remaining access he might have to contact you. Are your phones still connected on the same policy? I love my iphone, but I'd recommend exchanging it for something completely incompatible in a case like this! -10th Engineer Harrison 1
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