Mjm1014 Posted March 13, 2015 Posted March 13, 2015 So his girl and I have been seeing each other since the end of January (it's almost mid/end of March), and we seem to be at a standstill. Basically she lives walking distance to my house and my family has been wanting to meet her since we've been hanging and talking a lot, but she is refusing because she says it's too early on and she wants to take it slow and doesn't want to be in a relationship right now. She said the relationship took off too fast and wants to slow down. I know she likes me because she texts me 24/7 but I don't understand if it's normal that she doesn't want things to progress right now? I feel like I'm just an option and my family and friends feel that way too when I ask for their opinion. I'm a pilot and am away from home a lot and we see each other no more than 8-10 days a month. I finally have a day off and was going to commute home to see her on Monday (we had plans), and all of a sudden she can't hang because she's getting her nails done which means I'll have to see her in two more weeks. I would take that as another form of rejection but she still blows up my phone/always wondering what I am doing. Basically am I wasting my time? I don't really want to go on dates with anyone else because we hit it off so well initially but I'm starting to feel this might drag out and I could be wasting my time?
NopeNah Posted March 13, 2015 Posted March 13, 2015 Yep..Wasting your time and occupying her free time. Who can't schedule their nail appointment on a day when you're gone? NEXT!
Starship Posted March 13, 2015 Posted March 13, 2015 Didn't you just ask this question? Are you expecting a different set of answers?
GTR King Posted March 13, 2015 Posted March 13, 2015 If she wanted to see you she would of made plans nails don't take all day to be done... 1
Starship Posted March 13, 2015 Posted March 13, 2015 Let's see...she could see you or get her nails done? Why are you even asking...again? You obviously have some social skill issue. A mature male who is well adjusted need not ask the question but would move on in life. 'There is a train coming, should I cross the track?'. 'She can get her nails done and see me in 2 weeks...what should I do?' Again, what part of this is puzzling to you. Move on.
Author Mjm1014 Posted March 13, 2015 Author Posted March 13, 2015 I would move on but she keeps talking to me...she's texting me as we speak. I can't go 5 min throughout the day without her texting me so I'm confused and I do like this girl. Idk haha
deathandtaxes Posted March 14, 2015 Posted March 14, 2015 Getting her nails done?? By another guy!!! Drop this one like a dead fish and move on. 1
spiderowl Posted March 14, 2015 Posted March 14, 2015 Seeing her since January means it's not very long. It's possible she won't want to meet your family yet and wants to take it slow to get to know you properly, but wanting to meet you is part of that. Taking it slow is OK, not meeting family yet is OK, but not finding time to see you is a sign she's not that bothered. All in all, I wouldn't invest too much in this relationship now.
Gary S Posted March 14, 2015 Posted March 14, 2015 She said she does not want a relationship, and is breaking dates. That's means it will probably never happen, you are wasting your time with this woman. That's okay, there are plenty more fish in the sea.
fitnessfan365 Posted March 14, 2015 Posted March 14, 2015 If she wanted to see you she would of made plans nails don't take all day to be done... Hahahaha.. Man's got a solid point.
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