preraph Posted March 14, 2015 Posted March 14, 2015 I'm pretty much always in the mood. Haha But knowing that about myself, I'm fine when she isn't. After all, she has no control over how I'm hardwired. I just like to be able to communicate openly about what's on my mind. So when you share a sexual thought and she says that's all you're interested in, it gets OLD. Well, just be sure your communications are balanced and she hears from you not just when there's an issue or you're wanting sex. I think we're all guilty of getting into ruts of communication and forget that for someone to want to be around us for long, we need to sometimes be fun and jovial and entertaining. And that does take effort after awhile. I think as long as everything else is balanced and things are going along okay and there's not inequities about everything else, the sexual issues don't take on as much importance.
spiderowl Posted March 14, 2015 Posted March 14, 2015 Women are insecure about it because there are guys who seek sex who lie to get their way and then move on to the next girl the are attracted to. If a woman does not want casual sex, tells the guy this and he pretends he wants more, then she's going to become pretty jaded when she finds out he's just a player. This is why women are wary. The know that some guys lie.
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