xingyi Posted March 13, 2015 Posted March 13, 2015 I told a guy I fell for him already, I was just wanted to be a little flirtatious. but he said it is too soon to fall for him, and it is not good. SO I guess he is not interested. Otherwise he would be happy about it. I met him once only. On the second day he texted me but getting less and less messages.
Fhsjkfjrhsdh3646 Posted March 13, 2015 Posted March 13, 2015 Woah - throw the brakes on here... That's way too early to be saying that kind of thing if you've met once... It's not quite as bad as saying I love you, but pretty close.. haha. 1
preraph Posted March 13, 2015 Posted March 13, 2015 No, he is smart. He is smart enough to know that someone who falls immediately who doesn't even know him well at all is just in love with love and is trying to superimpose them over the ideal template they carry in their head of their imaginary love. I think a whole lot of young people, it's natural for them to be like you are, but in time you learn that that's idealistic and just not at all real. It takes a good amount of time to get to know someone and love them for who they are rather than who you hope they are. Basically, he's too mature for you. He's a step ahead of you in relationship development. 5
BlackOpsZombieGirl Posted March 14, 2015 Posted March 14, 2015 Don't ever say this to a guy you've only dated once! Even if you feel very strongly about it, just keep it to yourself. Better yet, instead of allowing yourself to blindly fall for someone so quickly - pace yourself and get to know him for a while before you allow your feelings for someone to get out of control. . 1
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