gnick Posted March 13, 2015 Posted March 13, 2015 My break up was months ago. I have another thread on here about it. I'm not a young man anymore. I have lots of experience with women breakups and marriage. I've spent Allmost 5 months reading everything I can find on breakups and how to deal with them. I know what the answers are and what to do. The problem is I've been looking for a women like the one I've lost all my life . Regardless of what all the advice says I'm having a rough time getting over this. I've caused most of my own problems by going against all this advice. I can't shake the feeling I've lost this women ,I'll never get her back or even talk to her again and I'll never find another women that will replace her. I blew it and I'll never have another opertunity. That's my mind set and I'm really struggling to overcome it
mightycpa Posted March 13, 2015 Posted March 13, 2015 (edited) I've caused most of my own problems by going against all this advice.>>> I'm having a rough time getting over this.Duh! I can't shake the feeling I've lost this women ,I'll never get her back or even talk to her again and I'll never find another women that will replace her. That's why the advice exists. Because you probably believe this and you might act on it, even though it is not necessarily true, and there's nothing you can do about it. I'm not a young man anymore. I have lots of experience with women breakups and marriage.Let's imagine that you're 55 or so. +\- 5 years. Your mental state could last 2 - 3 years, and it is kind of doubtful that you're going to run into somebody who fits you just right after this. The population from which you must choose is starting to look like a pool of perpetually single people. That's what all the 2nd, 3rd marriage statistics say, after all. But, it is possible, and the sooner you're able to pursue this new unknown woman, the more likely you are to find her. So take that advice, and get moving towards your recovery. You should know that it's very natural, albeit uncomfortable, to feel the way you're feeling. That's ok, you'll feel normal again eventually. Might as well get started on the road to recovery today. Good Luck Edited March 13, 2015 by mightycpa
Author gnick Posted March 13, 2015 Author Posted March 13, 2015 Thanks man. I'm trying. I've been dating but sometimes that makes me feel worse but you gotta keep trying
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