nightbird101 Posted March 12, 2015 Posted March 12, 2015 Okay so my gf and i have been dating for little over a month now. Things have been a little rocky but smoothing out. There is however one problem. -I have introduced her to my friends no probs. -she keeps me a secret from her friends. (Though most know about me). I have literally only met 3 of her friends while shes met pretty much all of mine. We've talked about this many times and her reason is this. -shes posessive about her friends. -shes finds it unconfterble. Now normally i understand that and have mo problem but then this weekend gets planned. So here we go. -her friends host a party and invite us both to come. She tells me dont. -the following day she plans a brunch out with friends. Dosnt invite me BUT invites my friend from my circle out. To be fair its a girls day out and my friend shes inviting is gay. However i just find this really unfair. Should i be upset about this or just sweep it under the rug?
Fhsjkfjrhsdh3646 Posted March 12, 2015 Posted March 12, 2015 One month is still very early, give it time. Don't be too needy. I've been dating the girl I'm seeing for 3 weeks and we're not even close to BF/GF yet.. Lol. Let alone knowing each other's friends. You have met 3 of her friends, that's pretty good IMO. Relax.
badpenny Posted March 12, 2015 Posted March 12, 2015 You need to make some plans which don't include her. I think her behaviour is controlling, and frankly, I couldn't put up with it, in your shoes, and I'm not sure why you do....?
GemmaUK Posted March 12, 2015 Posted March 12, 2015 You've been dating a month?!! Give her some space! She'll be smothered very soon! Chill and enjoy things. 2
Author nightbird101 Posted March 12, 2015 Author Posted March 12, 2015 One month is still very early, give it time. Don't be too needy. I've been dating the girl I'm seeing for 3 weeks and we're not even close to BF/GF yet.. Lol. Let alone knowing each other's friends. You have met 3 of her friends, that's pretty good IMO. Relax. Ahaha. Ahh kewl thanks. I had a feeling i shouldnt think to much about it
d0nnivain Posted March 12, 2015 Posted March 12, 2015 The new BF never gets to go to girl's day. Not inviting you to a party seems odd. You shouldn't be pissed but you should pay attention. Why isn't she bringing you around more. The party thing is what gets me. If there hadn't been a reason to meet her friends I'd be telling you to calm down. It's not like she can say, hey everybody wanna meet my new BF, like you are a pair of shoes she just bought. She might be private & cautious.
preraph Posted March 12, 2015 Posted March 12, 2015 She might have girlfriends she can't trust to not try to steal you. Seriously. You lock a person down before you throw them into the girlfriend pit, and even then you have to hope for the best. It's way too early for you to have any say in this. She is always going to want to have her ladies' night and if you throw a fit about it she will dump you. 1
Fhsjkfjrhsdh3646 Posted March 12, 2015 Posted March 12, 2015 She might have girlfriends she can't trust to not try to steal you. Seriously. You lock a person down before you throw them into the girlfriend pit, and even then you have to hope for the best. It's way too early for you to have any say in this. She is always going to want to have her ladies' night and if you throw a fit about it she will dump you. If only ladies had Bro Code, this wouldn't be a problem..
TunaCat Posted March 12, 2015 Posted March 12, 2015 Dude, cool your jets. It's only been a month. Of course she finds it uncomfortable, she BARELY knows you. 1
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