TooMuchDrama Posted April 9, 2005 Posted April 9, 2005 Hello all! as ive noticed there are many girls on this message board, which could work to my advantage. Ok now my problem the thing is me and the girl I have been seeing for a month now; we both had messed up childhoods, so were not the most confident people in ourselves and we are both kind of awkward around each other. Almost like were both worried the other will find out their boring or lame and decided not to go any further. I know this because this is the way I feel and she basically came out and said it also. Now we both tend to be very quiet we do talk and it is getting easier, but I always get the feeling I’m boring her to death. Sometimes she will get very quit and when I try to ask her questions she only gives me a yup and an I don’t know answer. I’m not really sure what to take of that. I know we both have a problem of not knowing how to act around each other what we should or shouldn’t do in fear of coming across wired or odd to the other. I’m normally very cunning and charming, but it seems once I get to this point it’s where I fall apart. I guess I’m not really sure what my question is, but if rather someone else has been in this situation could give me a little advise. I seem to become retarded once things get going in relationships. Another thing Do girls really care if the guy is the one who is a virgin? Were both 21 if that makes any difference?
Pocky Posted April 11, 2005 Posted April 11, 2005 When you spend time together are you doing anything or is it just sitting around? Try and incorporate shared interests into the time you spend together and this might give you more things to talk about. Also, as far as the virgin thing, it doesn't matter.
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