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Hello.

Met this amazing girl had a great 2 months dating talking with her. Very intimate with her. I have 2 kids she had one son. When I we had our kids for the weekend we went out. I know I was very affectionate with her. One night we both got drunk and we were talking about the relationship we were having she likes it and liked me a lot. She wanted to know how I felt and I think I messed it up when the I love you came out. She smiled and was happy to hear it told me that she wants to go with the flow and takes thinfs slow because she was afraid to be in another relationship that's her fear. I agreed. After that things went down hill she would complain that I was being too affectionate with her and that I would want sex with her all the time for long hours. I didn't argue with her about it I laughed and shrugged it off. We went to see the Heat game last Wednesday and she told me not to kiss her so because her bosses were there I agreed and played it cool the whole night. She barely paid attention to me only to make sure I was ok. After that she took me home and I went to kiss her and she pulled back. I mentioned to her interesting and she was curious as to what I meant. I told her I've been wanting to kiss her all night and she's pulling away. She said that I'm too affectionate with her and I agreed to take down a notch kissed her good night and got ready for bed. She called me 10 minutes later wanting me to come over which I did. We had crazy sex after. After that night she kept on being cold and snappy at me catching attitude whenever I would talk to her acting annoyed with me. I started to text way less and call less. All this week she's been initiating to text me call me and ive been responding but infrequent and less. For every one text I send she sends me 3 or 4. Last night she sent me a good morning and I replied 3 hours later morning. She asked me what's wrong and I sent her a text at 6 in the afternoon sorry I took long to respond ive been busy all day and have a lot of thing on my minds she replied it's ok what's on your mind. I replied too much to text maybe when I see you well talk sbout it. She insisted on knowing what was on my mind she would text call and I wouldn't answer till later. Finally we talked on the phone and she wanted to talk to me on the phone. I told her in person or next time. I mentioned that I was going to get something to eat so she was hungry and wanted to eat something I went and brought her food and we talked. I opened up to her alittle bit telling her that I don't taking things slow with you but going forward not backwards and the fact that I like you shouldn't change your behavior. It was a small heart to heart talk. She didn't have anything to say to me after that and I didn't want to pressure her for a response changed the subject and acted like nothing happened we chatted for alittle bit and at the end before leaving I wanted to escalate something but she didn't asked her for s hug and kiss and she gave me both. Then before I left she gave me another kiss and that's it today she sends me good morning and I sent a reply2 hours later. I want to turn things around snc try to get her to chase me because I'm still feeling her

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