Author Otter2569 Posted March 13, 2015 Author Posted March 13, 2015 Update: Plug Pulled I called to talk things over and immediately got the harsh tone, blame and accusations. Although I tried to keep calm and redirect the conversation it was pointless and I ended the call. Trying to be the bigger person I called back to apologise, got more tone and accusations so I ended it. 2
writergal Posted March 13, 2015 Posted March 13, 2015 Update: Plug Pulled I called to talk things over and immediately got the harsh tone, blame and accusations. Although I tried to keep calm and redirect the conversation it was pointless and I ended the call. Trying to be the bigger person I called back to apologise, got more tone and accusations so I ended it. Good for you, Otter! You gave that relationship your best. Ending it was the right decision. I'm sorry it came to that because of the good times you had with her. But really, she sounds like an irrational, unreasonable person and that can be exhausting to be around, hormonal-induced or personality-made. Whatever causes her to be this way with you and with others, isn't helping her and frankly it's not your responsibility to take on as your own burden. No one should. Give yourself some time to heal now. And don't forget to breathe.
Author Otter2569 Posted March 13, 2015 Author Posted March 13, 2015 Granted I spoke mostly of the bad things that have happened more recently but there was a lot of really great things too. Something was clearly going on with her and it was dragging our relationship down. Not that I didnt play a role in this but I also didnt deserve the treatment I got...it was happening more and more. Even if I contributed to the arguments I almost always tried and failed to end them however they went on and on. Some **** you just cant fix
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