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Was interested in this man, I'll call Dan two years ago. He was nice, I was dating a few guys but settled on one. Hadn't heard anything from Dan in two weeks. When he did contact me I told him I was seeing someone else, that was it.

 

Cut to tonight. He's had a horrible tragedy in his life. We haven't spoken in 2 years, just nodded and how are yous, we live in a small time, have known each other since high school. I tell him I'm sorry. He seems nervous. After a minute I leave.

 

An hour later I get a message from him on my okcupid account, thanking me. After two messages he asks me out.

 

What do you guys think?

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He likes you! This isn't that ambiguous. :)

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He's interested in you. If you are interested in him then give it a shot.

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Was interested in this man, I'll call Dan two years ago. He was nice, I was dating a few guys but settled on one. Hadn't heard anything from Dan in two weeks. When he did contact me I told him I was seeing someone else, that was it.

 

Cut to tonight. He's had a horrible tragedy in his life. We haven't spoken in 2 years, just nodded and how are yous, we live in a small time, have known each other since high school. I tell him I'm sorry. He seems nervous. After a minute I leave.

 

An hour later I get a message from him on my okcupid account, thanking me. After two messages he asks me out.

 

What do you guys think?

Are you free???

If so, ball is in your court. Ramp up the convo. If it works for you, take it to a date and charm his socks off.

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Without a doubt he's interested. In what, though, I would be careful until I found out. Sometimes people recovering from tragic events look to ease their pain by jumping into safe relationships with familiar people and use them until they are healed from their pain. I am not saying that is what is going on here, but I would be somewhat on the lookout for that dynamic.

Either way, he clearly likes you. If you like him, go for it.

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Without a doubt he's interested. In what, though, I would be careful until I found out. Sometimes people recovering from tragic events look to ease their pain by jumping into safe relationships with familiar people and use them until they are healed from their pain. I am not saying that is what is going on here, but I would be somewhat on the lookout for that dynamic.

Either way, he clearly likes you. If you like him, go for it.

 

That's why I'm hesitant, his sister died last week in an accident.

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