clands887 Posted March 12, 2015 Posted March 12, 2015 I went out with this girl a few days ago. I don't know her--we met online, and I asked her out. She said yes, and we had a few drinks. The conversation seemed to go well--we were together for 2 hours. We hugged at the end, and I said "it was great meeting you." After a slight pause, she said "Let's do this again soon" before we left. I texted her the day after saying I had a good time and asked her if she's free later in the week. She replied a few hrs later saying: "Likewise! Next few days are hectic and then I'm flying home on Thurs. But I get back next week Fri, so maybe after then?" Also, today, she started a text conversation afterwards about something else (random) we spoke about when we went out, and we had a back and forth for a bit... Do you think she's interested? Sorry for posting similar story, but this one is updated from before...
fitnessfan365 Posted March 12, 2015 Posted March 12, 2015 (edited) Girls tend to do this a lot. Especially ones online. They'll say "maybe" to getting together, but then want to text all the time. The trick is not falling into the trap. Cut to the chase and ask when she's free. If she says she doesn't know, or says "maybe". say this "I gotta run, but keep in touch when your schedule opens up". When she reaches out again, do the same thing. Swap 1-2 texts max, and then cut to the chase. If she stalls, tell her to keep in touch and get off the phone. Eventually she'll either make plans, or stop contacting you. Either way it's better than being a texting buddy. Edited March 12, 2015 by fitnessfan365 1
Gary S Posted March 12, 2015 Posted March 12, 2015 My advice would be to call girls on the phone from now on, and cut down on the texting. Texting is the worst form of communication there is when it comes to dating. You would know a lot more if you had called rather than texted.
Fhsjkfjrhsdh3646 Posted March 12, 2015 Posted March 12, 2015 My advice would be to call girls on the phone from now on, and cut down on the texting. Texting is the worst form of communication there is when it comes to dating. You would know a lot more if you had called rather than texted. How old are you? I feel like your advice is conditional based on age... Anyone under 30 seems to prefer texting. The younger you get, more so.
d0nnivain Posted March 12, 2015 Posted March 12, 2015 My answer remains the same: If she is flying somewhere, I can understand why she doesn't want to deal with some person she just met until she gets back. Although I hate texts, reply as follows: Great. Safe travels. I'll reach out for you the Monday after you get home. Then put her out of your mind until you can call (not text call using your voice) on that Monday . . . 2 weeks from now. 1
Fhsjkfjrhsdh3646 Posted March 12, 2015 Posted March 12, 2015 Listen to d0n. Don't initiate when the other person is traveling.
devilish innocent Posted March 12, 2015 Posted March 12, 2015 Yes. She's interested. There'd be no reason for her to keep mentioning that she wants to see you if she wasn't.
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