LookAtThisPOst Posted March 11, 2015 Posted March 11, 2015 Previous post in this subject covered if you should ask a person's sex # on a first date. But did you know there are couples that had dated years without knowing? I am wondering. How can you be with for so long and having had pretty much every cconversation you could have and not have this conversation come up. And if you do bring it up years into it. Then what?
Vintage79 Posted March 11, 2015 Posted March 11, 2015 Either you care a lot, and it's an early conversation - not first date, but likely around the time that you're starting to have sex, or else it really doesn't matter. Truthfully, I don't really care, as long as the person is over their past, sexually clean, and not sleeping around when I'm with them. If the other person has the same perspective, it's pretty easy for the conversation to never come up, even over the course of years. If it comes up after a few years, well, then just talk about it - at that point, hopefully you've been exclusive for a long time, know the other person well, value them for a variety of reasons - at that point the answer to this question is effectively irrelevant/not important. 1
CalvinM Posted March 11, 2015 Posted March 11, 2015 The woman I started seeing asked me this last night, and I realized as long as she's clean, it really doesn't matter. We're together now, so her past is irrelevant.
mammasita Posted March 11, 2015 Posted March 11, 2015 I don't get why its so important to know. I LOVE the fact that my BF has never asked nor cared. I know he would tell me if I cared to ask, but I really don't. Its completely irrelevant to anything and everything. 2
Hopeful30 Posted March 11, 2015 Posted March 11, 2015 Can someone please explain to me how this information would contribute at all to a relationship? Lets say you know the number...what are u gonna do with that info? How will it be useful at all? 3
rester Posted March 11, 2015 Posted March 11, 2015 I've been with my girlfriend for over 3 years and we have no idea what each others' "numbers" are. I have no interest in knowing whatsoever.
mammasita Posted March 11, 2015 Posted March 11, 2015 Can someone please explain to me how this information would contribute at all to a relationship? Lets say you know the number...what are u gonna do with that info? How will it be useful at all? NO FREAKING KIDDING. UGH. Its so high school. "How many people have you kissed" 1
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