youdunsay Posted March 11, 2015 Share Posted March 11, 2015 It might sounds weird but I have an eye candy who erm sort of gave me eye contact. He works in the same building as me and we crossed paths a couple of times. So yesterday he purposely cut into my way (or rather I guess so) to get into the train on my way back. I was texting busily and didn't look up. Actually I pretended not to notice him and got in the other cabin besides. He was sort of disappointed? (Maybe that's me being hopeful) I guess that I entered the other cabin. And I think I missed a chance, did I? I guess he should be forgone? The thing is I'm never the spontaneous type to walk up to guys and talk - unless it's purely building business network. Link to post Share on other sites
preraph Posted March 11, 2015 Share Posted March 11, 2015 Yes, you may have missed a chance. We're not always ready when an opportunity presents itself. Next time you're anywhere he might be around, be friendly and smile in general at everyone and maybe he'll see you as approachable and not "hope" you tag him next time. Get right in front of him and drop something. If he's a gentleman, he will reach for it. If he's interested he will reach for it. If he's neither, he will not reach for it. Or ask him to hold something while you dig in your purse. I once asked a guy to hold my shoes while I danced with another guy. I have no shame. Then the one who held my shoes ended up being a bf for awhile. Link to post Share on other sites
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