thorin Posted March 11, 2015 Posted March 11, 2015 For the last 2 weeks I am trying to meet some new people, girls to date at best, but I fail completely. I just don't know how to do that. I broke up with a girl 2 weeks ago, and talking to other girls seems to help a bit. All my former girls I met by doing something similar - one from my university, the other one from dance lessons. Right now I don't have any girls in my environment, so I've been trying to meet them on street, or in pubs, without having anything in common at the beginning like previously. Yesterday I was in a pub with my friend (shy and not confident), I have been talking with a couple of girls, trying to get to know them, but they weren't interested that much, or I couldn't keep up the conversation. But what amazed me, is that one of them asked me if my friend is single, and then they exchanged numbers, even though he didn't have the courage to talk to any girl there. Then I just got drunk and tried to kiss a girl who said I tried to pick up almost every girl there So almost everytime I talk to a new girl, it's a short conversation, getting her number, and that's it. Either the number doesn't exist, or they don't want to meet. I also tried on the street, but talking about the weather, or things like that, doesn't go to anything and they hardly ever give their numbers after that. And telling girls they're attractive and I want to meet then straight away doesn't help either. What should I change? What am I doing wrong? Thanks!
Fhsjkfjrhsdh3646 Posted March 11, 2015 Posted March 11, 2015 If you're going out to search for girls, you're doing it wrong. It should occur naturally while you're enjoying yourself, not a hunt you should be on. Try online dating?
CalvinM Posted March 11, 2015 Posted March 11, 2015 (edited) Are you mentioning the previous girl to potential dates? That's a huge turn off to women. Otherwise, just go out and have fun. Edit: if you ride public transportation (bus, train etc), see if a girl you're attracted to is reading a book, and ask her about it. You'll need to have a bit of confidence, but that's a good start. Edited March 11, 2015 by CalvinM
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