DatingDirection Posted March 11, 2015 Posted March 11, 2015 I went on a couple of dates with a guy I really liked in the summer. He called it off b/c he felt that we wouldn't make a good fit for the long term. He asked me if I wanted to be friends with benefits with him, or said that we could just be friends. I told him, that I am not into being friends with benefits, but that I would like to remain friends, and so it's 7 months later, and we're still friends. He calls me to say hi, sometimes he asks to see me, although I've been busy, so we haven't seen each other since he broke it off, we've just spoken over the phone. He just got back from Australia and he decided to call me. I really do like him. Am I just an ego boost for him, or is he just friends with me hoping that one day I will sleep with him, or could it be that he really does like me, but he's scared to be with me? or maybe im just an option? Sorry to many questions, but I really have no idea, if we get along well, why he still contacts me and flirts with me. If I really like him, should I disconnect from him, since he's not willing to be with me?
PogoStick Posted March 11, 2015 Posted March 11, 2015 You should assume he was being truthful. Either have sex with him, be only friends, or break it off. Which do you want?
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