hgk6 Posted April 8, 2005 Posted April 8, 2005 My girlfriend and I had a messy breakup after 8 months. She told me she cant keep going back and forth with me and I need to heal. In order to heal we need to have complete no contact. It has been a week and half. I've bumped into her at the gym twice. Talked to her put on a good front. But got the picture that she is very happy with no contact,she said "i think it is helping,no pressure" whatever that means. Meanwhile she has this rebound guy who she has a history with who "conforts her" i want to throw up. She made it clear in the conversation that she doesnt even want to think about giving us another chance. Anyway,i need a no contact expert female to tell me how to master the game, and if i have any shot of her coming back to me. I miss her and love her greatly. All advice and comments are welcome.
pippen_2k Posted April 8, 2005 Posted April 8, 2005 Man its very very hard to accept, damn, its been over 3 months for me and I still get this stupid idea that I might get her back.... aint gonna happen ..... The more you run into her and talk to her its just gonna set you back.... I find any contact I have with me ex sets me back a whole week.. another week of tears and pain.. it really isnt worth it.... Dont expect her to call or msg you either, the anticipation only dissapoints you when she dosent.... Take care of number 1.
LucreziaBorgia Posted April 8, 2005 Posted April 8, 2005 i need a no contact expert female to tell me how to master the game 'No Contact' is about putting the ball into someone else's court. In your case, you could throw the ball into her side of the court - but its hard to play a game with someone whose already left the gym. You can't win in a game where the other person isn't playing. She told me she cant keep going back and forth with me and I need to heal. In order to heal we need to have complete no contact. I think she just told you that to make it sound like she had your 'best interests' in mind, when really she was just breaking up with you for someone else and needed you out of the picture.
Fallen_Angel Posted April 9, 2005 Posted April 9, 2005 No contact is so painful. I'm trying to cut my ex off. He wants to remain friends and "help me deal" but whenever I talk to him I get really upset. He IMd me today and I wasn't at the computer, so I sent him a text message and he sent one back. Then a little while ago I saw him sign online so I signed right off for about 30 seconds. When I signed on again he was gone. I don't know how to win this so-called game, as I am trying to figure this out for myself. Inevitably I think the only way we're all going to "win" is if we face reality and move on. Somewhere out there is a person who is better for each one of us.
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