Everything was going awesome, and then he is angry with no reason

[dikari]

HI!, I want to tell this story and find some opinions about it.

I was talking with this guy online, he was very nice person,

and he is japanese, and I am obsessed with japan a lot.

so He was very interested in meet me in person. So he traveled

2 hours in his car and met me at my hometown in a safe place.

and we went on a date, he spent like 80 dollars in the dinner. plus

the gas for the car, and the tolls, I think its a lot of interest. and he was being serious about the date. He told me I was more cute in person than in pictures, and I thought he's attractive too. He was very nervous around me all the time.

specially in the car. His hands were like shaking all the time. the communication between us was a little hard, because he speak bad english.

but everything else was great. So the other day I traveled to New York and he works there, and told him I was there, so He went out of work and go to see me, and offered me to take me to my home in his car, but the car didn't work in the ice. so I got in the car waiting if he could take me home, but he said his car was broken, ( and it was) so I said" bye I've to take the train" and got out of the car, and then He got upset and texted me that he wanted to kiss me, but I had to go quickly.

afterall I went back to New York with my family and told him, he got extremely mad, because he thought i was with my ex or something, and Said "you are not reliable person, sorry, I can't trust in your words"

and I was like WHat??, and I said "its ok if you dont want to talk with me anymore i dont want to bother you" and he said" Ok, Bye"

and I went crying that night, because I really like him. and I tried to talk with him, and he said" Please , don't tell me your plans anymore, THANKS"" I really don't understand what happened to him, everything was going like perfect, but then He hates me now.

If someone took the time to read all this story, I want to hear opinions please, I am confused and sad.

[marcelo.santos]

he is emotionally unstable and immature.

 

No matter if you are planning to see him - be cool and tell him that he did something very wrong so he may learn something and be a better person.

 

I suggest that you to move on and if he try to reach you again you can try 1 more time only and only if he ask apologies for what he did - In this case I suggest you to take very care and not get involved before you are 100% sure that you will not be in trouble as it seems a very unstable person and you can be in trouble.

 

What is his background, like he had long relationships? what is his age?

[angiefly]

Maybe it's a languge barrier? or cultural differences? It sounds like a mis-understanding but still dramatic on his part. He handled it all poorly and would give me enough incentive to run and not look back.