fred123 Posted March 9, 2015 Posted March 9, 2015 being honest how you feel to girls is a good or bad idea? iv noticed if you are honest and mature girls will still lead you on and not be honest. example: telling a girl that your head wants to stop talking to her cos the more you talk the more you will start to like/have feelings for her and you are scared of having feeling for her. she says dont be scared cos she is not the type of person to play with peoples feelings. BUT why do girld not tell you at the beginning that they only see you as a friend. girls know it but wont say it
Gary S Posted March 9, 2015 Posted March 9, 2015 They can't say "no" to your face because they don't know what your attitude is, you might reject them back and try to rip their head off. This is all subconscious. You just have to watch their actions. Talk is cheap but actions scream.
catchthedrift Posted March 9, 2015 Posted March 9, 2015 Your post is confusing, you obviously feel a lot of resentment towards women because of certain bad experiences you had. Please give them a chance. Everybody is different. Perhaps take a step back and stop getting involved too quickly with someone on an emotional level, maybe date more casually, and good things will follow. You seem a bit too straight forward and nitpicking, and a lot of women just don't like that. It's not attractive in a guy. You know what else isn't: Bad grammar. 1
katiegrl Posted March 9, 2015 Posted March 9, 2015 being honest how you feel to girls is a good or bad idea? iv noticed if you are honest and mature girls will still lead you on and not be honest. example: telling a girl that your head wants to stop talking to her cos the more you talk the more you will start to like/have feelings for her and you are scared of having feeling for her. she says dont be scared cos she is not the type of person to play with peoples feelings. BUT why do girld not tell you at the beginning that they only see you as a friend. girls know it but wont say it Please don't ever tell a girl you're "scared of your feelings." My guess is she liked you, but after hearing you are "scared of your feelings," she changed her mind and got turned off. Promise you will never ever say that to a woman again, okay? If you're so scared of your feelings that you need to stop talking to a girl, you have a big problem that probably requires therapy to get past. Tell your therapist you are scared of your feelings, NOT a woman you like and want to date. Ugh. p.s. honesty is great, but some things are just better kept to yourself...or tell a good friend or therapist. 1
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