I called my boyfriend a swear word during a brief fight, he won't reply to me even af

[kendahke]

I don't know, I think she said she's still in school so it's probably that period where relationships don't lasy long no matter what you do. And if he's dumb enough to ditch her for friends he's probably dumb enough to do other things that call for a whack upside the head. =/

 

I'd ditch an unpleasant, nit picking name caller, too, to hang with my friends or be by myself. Peace is always preferable to brawling.

[preraph]

If two months into the relationship he's truly cancelling a planned date with you to do something else, this is not going anywhere because at this stage, you would both be on your best behavior, and if he's not, then he knows this isn't going to last long. If on the other hand you had merely *hoped* he was having plans with you that night and are pissed that he did something else instead, you are dead wrong.

[MissBee]

We had an argument about him cancelling our plans to go out with his friends, so it resulted in me calling him a nasty word (this is over text). Obviously he never had a response to that and I sent another text the day after apologizing and explaining I was drunk at the time (which I was, I wouldn't have said it had I been sober) It's been two days and still no reply. I don't really blame him to be honest but it is driving me mad wondering what he is thinking. My friends and family keep telling me to text him again but I don't know what to say and can't face another text being ignored. I also don't want to keep trying to contact him if he needs some space. I just don't know what to do. It is making me feel ill, I am so worried he is done with me. We have argued in the past and I always feel like it is my fault, so I feel like he is done with me now. Whenever we fell out in the past he'd say things like 'why can't you just be chill and normal', and 'I can't handle this/do this'. But he always came back. I don't understand him. I need some contact from him, I'm going mad. We have only been together for about 2 months, btw.

 

What do you mean you don't understand him when you're the one swearing at him and who seems to be unable to "act normal?"

 

If it's been two months and you're already fighting that much and if he is already exasperated I think it might be time to call it quits and for you to take some time to learn how to manage your anger and communicate effectively.