Superman2024 Posted March 8, 2015 Posted March 8, 2015 I think it'd be helpful to get input on my OLD profile from young women around the age I normally search for (20-30). Since I can't post a link to my profile here I'll need to send it privately, so please let me know if that's ok. Thanks in advance!
smackie9 Posted March 8, 2015 Posted March 8, 2015 Keep it short and simple and never say "You want, or you are looking for, you need.." The more open minded and relaxed you are the more women will find you approachable, and not judgmental.
fitnessfan365 Posted March 8, 2015 Posted March 8, 2015 I disagree. I think it's important to have standards and state what you want and are looking for. Why would I want a woman to approach me that I'd have no interest in talking to?
smackie9 Posted March 8, 2015 Posted March 8, 2015 It plainly states :non smoker, looking for serious relationship, hobbies hiking, snow boarding, etc. So most of what you are looking for is already in the intro part. From a lot of women's comments on this topic, they don't like seeing a novel, or seeing "I"m looking for a good girl with good morals, that is sweet and honest", I don't like tattoos or bad makeup I want a natural looking girl, etc. She has to be honest, and not have a lot of baggage.....Have long hair I prefer blondes, not bleach blondes. TBH people do not read the blurb, they look at the pictures and see what you do for a living. 1
smackie9 Posted March 8, 2015 Posted March 8, 2015 People have so may profiles to look through they don't spend time looking at your details. Women go by their emotions, and if they feel a relaxed, positive vibe from your simple post, they will have more of an interest. If they don't measure up to your standards, it's as simple as a delete button.
Gary S Posted March 8, 2015 Posted March 8, 2015 Rule number one is to keep negative stuff out of your profile, it's not romantic. Shorter is better... that way, there is less chance of you putting your foot in your mouth! It's 90% pictures anyway, so make sure you workout and have the best pics you can get of yourself. I would also not make it too serious. Keep it romantic or playful, lighthearted. Like the Cindi Lauper song says, Girls Just Want To Have Fun. 2
smackie9 Posted March 8, 2015 Posted March 8, 2015 plus there is no way of truly knowing if they are right for you or not until you have a date with them.....that's when you can express your likes and some expectations through conversation. I feel people rely way too much on the OLD site to do the work for them, and their expectations of what the results should be is way too high.
fitnessfan365 Posted March 8, 2015 Posted March 8, 2015 It all comes down to personal preference, but I actually care a lot about a woman's profile. Since hot women are a dime a dozen, I actually want to get a hint of what her personality is like and what she's about. So when a woman just has a few generic sentences, or the LAME "Ask me" I get annoyed and move on to the next one. It's the women that actually put some effort into their profile that catch my attention. Plus, I know that this generation has a really short attention span and keep a texting mentality in regards to length. But since I don't have a problem with reading comprehension, I don't mind a few paragraphs. However, it's only when a woman tells her entire life story that it gets to be a bit much.
Gary S Posted March 8, 2015 Posted March 8, 2015 ^^^^well, that's the thing fitness... hot women don't have to put anything in their profile to get hit on too much, lol!
fitnessfan365 Posted March 8, 2015 Posted March 8, 2015 ^^^^well, that's the thing fitness... hot women don't have to put anything in their profile to get hit on too much, lol! Haha.. true. But it's funny when a woman will have more pics up then sentences in her profile, and then complain when all the emails she gets are based on her looks. One of the girls I'm talking with right now is not only hot, but she had a really good profile write up. That's what made her stand out to me.
smackie9 Posted March 8, 2015 Posted March 8, 2015 We are not talking about what you men are looking for, or how you look over a woman's profile. The OP wants to know how HE can set up his profile to have women interested and not turned off. The number one thing is photos. Second, positive outlook and vibe....friendly and fun. Keeping it simple. Women don't have to work at it, but guys do. The one thing me and my husband noticed while we were looking for his buddies profile for sh its and giggles, was the terrible photos guys had on their profiles....confirmed to me how luck I am to be married.
Author Superman2024 Posted March 9, 2015 Author Posted March 9, 2015 My main text is about 174 words so it's not too long. I keep things positive as well. I think my main pic is pretty good and I'm not sure how much better I can get it. I'm at the point where I've tweaked my profile many, many times and need some input from young women based on seeing the entire profile.
Author Superman2024 Posted March 9, 2015 Author Posted March 9, 2015 So, is there anyone I can send a link to my OLD profile to?
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