wow Posted April 8, 2005 Posted April 8, 2005 NC is it different for men and woman? Do woman respond diffently to men when NC is executed on them, and if so how? It seems that NC towards men is very typical, they miss you and want you back. Share the knowledge!
Gottabestrong Posted April 8, 2005 Posted April 8, 2005 I have no idea if it is different. Can only share my own experiences. Am currently doing NC with an ex of mine, and since I started (20 days ago) he has contacted me 3 times. I did not inform him of going NC though, so he might only just now have realized what's happening. In January I entered an unplanned NC situation with the same ex. He did not call and neither did I. At the end it lasted for 6 weeks and then he gave me a call. He said he just wanted to hear a friendly voice. I did not plan on contacting him, and probably would have been able to stay strong. Another ex of mine has gone NC with me recently. We were together for 3 years, but I ended it nealy 6 years ago. We have always stayed in touch. Well, he has contacted me and I felt bad to ignore him. Last time I had heard from him was end of December. After two months I started to wonder, and if he had not contacted me, I might have sent him an email in the next few weeks, asking him how he is doing. Not because I wanted him back, but because I was curious. But, he has just sent me a mail a few days ago telling me that he dreamed of me. Poor guy, I feel bad for him and wish I would be interested in getting back together. Am not though, because we are totally different people.
Author wow Posted April 8, 2005 Author Posted April 8, 2005 my girl broke up with me last week over the fact that her feelings have changed towards me. She says she loves me as a friend. ooooh , i have friends but there is currently a vaccancy for a girl friemd, i told her. She cried and cried and wanted to talk and all i wanted to do was leave. When it is over it is over no contact, no best friends nothing. Well she has called and smsed me a couple of times in the last 6 days. So why and did she not get the idea of the break up? I have ingnored all of them and will for the next 2 weeks because I am going on HOLIDAY! there ,might be a change when i get back so yeah. Leaving now to catch my flight see u all
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