seabliss Posted March 8, 2015 Posted March 8, 2015 After months of having a huge crush on this boy at my university, we began to hookup. We barely got to know each other, it was straight physical. This lasted for a few months. The weird part was, we never had sex. He told me to was shy and didn't really "do that." Since I had a huge crush on him and liked the attention, we continued to hookup although it was mostly me pleasuring him. I just found out recently that during that whole time we were hooking up, he was having sex with this girl that I know and now they are dating. Granted, I had just met him and they knew each other for years. I just feel so foolish that I believed his lies and now I feel so used and that I wasn't good enough. I know this isn't practical thinking because I was just a stranger to him but it makes me feel so bad about myself. I feel so dumb for believing his lies and giving in. I've cried a lot and I just feel bad that I let this happen. It makes me feel so ugly and sad. I need help not feeling like this is a personal attack against me and my appearance...
Phoe Posted March 8, 2015 Posted March 8, 2015 Oh dear it definitely wasn't a personal attack against you. He was simply being a selfish jerk. He was only thinking about himself. 1
GTR King Posted March 8, 2015 Posted March 8, 2015 Just ignore him & go NC.. He not worth it if he did that.. Don't feel bad u did noting wrong at all
DoesntGetIt Posted March 8, 2015 Posted March 8, 2015 The world is full of *******s, of both genders. They will use people for their own personal gain and toss them aside when they are finished with them. It doesn't mean anything about you, or the others who get hurt in that way. It is purely about how terrible some people are. Stay positive, you will meet much better guys who will care about you and treat you with respect and love.
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