Imajerk17 Posted March 7, 2015 Posted March 7, 2015 (edited) On the one hand you have the Struggling Dudes griping about how afraid they are about being settled for by a woman. On the other hand you have the very same Struggling Dudes griping about how picky women are. Don't these contradict? I mean if women just went for you even though you aren't really what they want, wouldn't they be settling for you? Or should women just find the Struggling Dudes' whining and self-pity irresistibly attractive? Edited March 7, 2015 by Imajerk17 1
Gloria25 Posted March 7, 2015 Posted March 7, 2015 I hate to burst your bubble, but everybody "settles". No one is 100% what we want. All of us have to sit down and decide what's a deal breaker and/or what we will tolerate in a person. That guy with the supermodel on his arm? I bet you he treats her like his car, home, etc - just another "symbol of his status" rather than his wife/woman. And fact is, not all of us are gonna land a supermodel...so, we, again, decide what we will accept/not accept in meeting and keeping someone. Why not just relax and enjoy the ride? While you may think that X woman is "settling" for all you know, she may be tired of all the men who only want her for her looks and you offer security and love. I mean, do you really want to tell her why she "settled" for you? If you are in a healthy/loving situation - then stop questioning it.
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