Bobbi7 Posted March 7, 2015 Posted March 7, 2015 Do you think there is something wrong with a person that can only get dates from OLD and not in "real life?" I don't get approached by guys when I'm out...like at the gym, at the mall, grocery store. I don't go to bars/club a whole lot..there has been times when guys danced with me and that's it. No exchanging names or numbers. I don't have a social circle. There has been times when I've gone to my siblings house parties, but I never get approached by their friends. The only place I get dates are from OLD. Is that kind of weird?
Buddhist Posted March 7, 2015 Posted March 7, 2015 Not really. It isn't that common for women to be cold approached, despite the rampant urban legends to the contrary. I don't think I've ever been approached by someone who wasn't a desperate middle aged divorcee with grubby kids and beer gut in tow. I've usually met my partners either online (non-dating forums) or in a work type situation. Fairly usual actually. The kind of guys who will cold approach like that are tail chasers so they only approach women of a certain calibre (ie, stereotypically clothed and made up like a fresco), it's an easy bullet to dodge.
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